Words Mean Something, Especially When We're Talking About Abortion

WEBVTT100:00:00.600 --> 00:00:05.799I Am Yours, I am yours, I am yours. Send Me.200:00:06.160 --> 00:00:10.349Lord. Welcome to the Gospel Centerper life podcast and this episode we're going300:00:10.349 --> 00:00:13.470to talk about words, the wordsthat we use when we're talking to an400:00:13.509 --> 00:00:17.390abortion minded mom, the words thatwe use when we're talking about abortion who500:00:17.429 --> 00:00:20.230believe the words in this podcast willbe a blessing to you, so stay600:00:20.269 --> 00:00:35.340tuned. I felt show passish,touch your heart. Use Guys. Welcome700:00:35.380 --> 00:00:38.810to the Gospel Center per life podcast. Appreciate you, guys joining us.800:00:39.450 --> 00:00:43.130Appreciate all you guys who share thispodcast. We encourage you to do that.900:00:43.850 --> 00:00:49.729We're going to talk today about wordsand that words mean something and,1000:00:49.890 --> 00:00:53.640of course, in particular when we'redealing with the issue of abortion, the1100:00:53.719 --> 00:00:57.759language that we use, the wordsthat we use, can have an impact,1200:00:57.799 --> 00:01:02.759a good positive impact or a badnegative impact. All right, and1300:01:03.039 --> 00:01:07.069we well know, if you've beenin this area of ministry for any time,1400:01:07.909 --> 00:01:11.109you who are listening, you wellknow that the quote pro choice movement1500:01:11.390 --> 00:01:17.109knows this as well. Right andtheir language with plan parenthood and and other1600:01:17.269 --> 00:01:21.060you know, the abortion industry ingeneral. They craft language in such a1700:01:21.140 --> 00:01:23.540way a right that makes it seemlike abortion is just healthcare. Yeah,1800:01:23.579 --> 00:01:26.420matter of fact, they say thatabortion is healthcare rights, one of the1900:01:26.459 --> 00:01:30.340thing reproductive health care. Yeah,so we're going to talk about that.2000:01:30.620 --> 00:01:34.370We're also going to talk about howwe as as ministers of the Gospel,2100:01:36.090 --> 00:01:41.569but as prolife ministers as well,ministers of life, the language that we2200:01:41.650 --> 00:01:47.090use and how that language can bereceived or even rejected by those that were2300:01:47.129 --> 00:01:51.239trying to reach because of the wordsthat we use. Right, right,2400:01:51.319 --> 00:01:53.719we need to be very careful withwords. While we were thinking about doing2500:01:53.799 --> 00:02:00.680this podcast, in this this subject, I was in an extended text exchange2600:02:00.469 --> 00:02:07.069with a mother who was on thefence between choosing life or aborting her child.2700:02:07.349 --> 00:02:09.629Yeah, and I was very consciousof the words I was using.2800:02:10.349 --> 00:02:14.870And after a while she kind ofwent silent, which is usually not a2900:02:14.949 --> 00:02:20.539good sign. And then a coupleof days later, I wrote to her,3000:02:21.939 --> 00:02:27.900offering help again, and she respondedthe pregnancy is terminated. Yeah,3100:02:28.180 --> 00:02:31.849and it really struck me. Iwanted to write back, do you mean3200:02:32.129 --> 00:02:37.569that your baby is dead, thatyou have killed your baby? I wouldn't3300:02:37.569 --> 00:02:40.930have, and I didn't, butthat is what happened. But the the3400:02:42.009 --> 00:02:46.280words that she used made it seemlike, you know, a job is3500:02:46.319 --> 00:02:51.719terminated or or you know, thethe dishes are done, the pregnancy is3600:02:51.719 --> 00:02:57.479terminated. It was such a coldand sterile sort of it's the language of3700:02:57.560 --> 00:03:02.150the abortion industry, is yeah,and that's intentional. The abortion industry knows3800:03:04.110 --> 00:03:08.349that the more terminology and words thatthey would use that would humanize that baby,3900:03:08.669 --> 00:03:12.830right, the less likely women aregoing to be to come to them4000:03:12.900 --> 00:03:17.419and have abortions pay for their healthcare. Yeah, reproductive services. Yeah,4100:03:17.620 --> 00:03:20.979yeah, I mean, come on, I'm going to rabbit trail on this,4200:03:21.340 --> 00:03:25.860right, but reproductive health care,abortion is exactly the opposite of reproduction.4300:03:25.939 --> 00:03:32.849Reproduction, the word reproduce implies thatyou're that something else is being created4400:03:32.930 --> 00:03:38.169in the milt produced. Yes,and that's exactly the opposite that which has4500:03:38.169 --> 00:03:43.240already been produced by the hand,by the hand of God. Yeah,4600:03:43.280 --> 00:03:47.360and through the active intercourse, thatbaby is being killed. It's not reproduction,4700:03:47.400 --> 00:03:51.639it's the opposite anyway. Yeah,and health. Well, health is4800:03:51.680 --> 00:03:57.189usually that you're saving and enhancing someone'slife, not taking life. That so4900:03:57.710 --> 00:04:04.229I went through some of the wordsthat are prominent in the abortion movement.5000:04:04.509 --> 00:04:10.259So, so one of the wordsabortion, let's talk about that. Okay,5100:04:10.340 --> 00:04:15.060portion itself, the word abortion.What's an abortion? I mean most5200:04:15.139 --> 00:04:19.579people outside of who are doing abortionsreally it's not a word. To use5300:04:19.740 --> 00:04:27.970abortion a and it it in andof itself sanitizes what is a horrific,5400:04:28.089 --> 00:04:34.050violent either poisoning or dismember me dismemberment, death of an unborn child. Yeah,5500:04:34.490 --> 00:04:43.800but so the word itself, abortiondistances the mother and everybody from the5600:04:44.000 --> 00:04:48.399truth of what is actually yeah,yeah, or even that term termination of5700:04:48.439 --> 00:04:51.680a pregnancy, right. Yeah,you know, when you think about the5800:04:51.720 --> 00:04:55.350word abortion, I mean if yougo to its root, and of course5900:04:55.430 --> 00:05:00.430the word is abort right, andit's stoppinging a process, right, process6000:05:00.470 --> 00:05:03.990that's in place. It's stopping thatprocess. Now, the process, of6100:05:04.110 --> 00:05:08.220course, in this situation is pregnancy, right, and that's another word.6200:05:09.100 --> 00:05:14.620People in the Abortion Industry Plan parenthood. They use the word pregnancy to apply6300:05:14.740 --> 00:05:16.220to the baby. We're going totake care of your pregnancy, right,6400:05:16.259 --> 00:05:19.779we're going to remove the pregnancy.Right. Well, pregnancy is not a6500:05:19.939 --> 00:05:24.089thing. I actually say this thisoften, yes, as I'm talking to6600:05:24.129 --> 00:05:28.529women at the abortion center, talkingto men, and say pregnancy is not6700:05:28.569 --> 00:05:34.009a thing, it's a process andabortion stops that process. Of pregnancy.6800:05:34.129 --> 00:05:38.399Yeah, but you know, ifyou think about it, I mean thinking6900:05:38.439 --> 00:05:43.079about the word abortion, they're actuallytwo ways to abort a pregnancy. You7000:05:43.279 --> 00:05:47.639can kill your child in the womb, dismemberment or a medical abortion, or7100:05:48.560 --> 00:05:53.629you can deliver your baby, Imean delivery of a child. Your child7200:05:53.750 --> 00:05:58.230being born terminates the pregnancy. That'sright. So it's not abortion, but7300:05:58.350 --> 00:06:00.949check to termination of pregnancy, iswhat you're saying. And one one very7400:06:00.990 --> 00:06:04.540positive and one very horrific. Yeah, how about just the Word Clinic?7500:06:05.459 --> 00:06:11.699Yeah, abortion clinic. So whatdoes clinic say to us? Well,7600:06:12.060 --> 00:06:16.420it seems helpful. It seems likeit's there to meet our needs, medical7700:06:16.540 --> 00:06:21.129needs and that sort of thing.Doctors who are there to improve life.7800:06:21.129 --> 00:06:26.129Yeah, well, so this issomething I mentioned to you before we started7900:06:26.209 --> 00:06:30.370this podcast. But yes, someof the language that we use, because8000:06:30.370 --> 00:06:35.000there is a lingo, I guess, associated with with any I guess niche8100:06:35.000 --> 00:06:39.600or whatever. I don't know whatword to use there. Yeah, and8200:06:39.720 --> 00:06:43.480we have a lingo on the sidewalkand within our circles. We refer to8300:06:43.480 --> 00:06:46.350the abortion clinics as abortion mills.That's an abortion meal. And why do8400:06:46.430 --> 00:06:50.189we do that? It's because theyproduce abortions. They and they do it8500:06:51.149 --> 00:06:54.629without really you know, you thinkof a meal, you think of they8600:06:54.709 --> 00:07:00.509just produce a product without really regardto anything but just producing that product.8700:07:00.670 --> 00:07:04.259And that's what abortion is, especiallythe one not far from here on the8800:07:04.339 --> 00:07:08.579trope drive, when they're doing,we just came from there today, forty8900:07:08.860 --> 00:07:13.740seven, more than probably more,probably more than forty seven one day abortions.9000:07:14.019 --> 00:07:16.610Yeah, yeah, that's an abortionmill. So it's a factory.9100:07:16.850 --> 00:07:20.569It's a factory of babies, thatabortions, killing by children. Yeah,9200:07:20.610 --> 00:07:24.250right. So we refer to itin our circles as an abortion meal.9300:07:24.490 --> 00:07:27.730Yeah. Now, when I'm sharing, though, publicly on social media,9400:07:27.810 --> 00:07:30.600if I go share at a churchor something like that, people who aren't9500:07:30.720 --> 00:07:32.959in this realm, right, thatI want to bring into this realm,9600:07:33.040 --> 00:07:35.519like I want them to come intothis ministry. I want them to see9700:07:36.040 --> 00:07:40.480the validity of this ministry, inthe necessity of this ministry, I don't9800:07:40.480 --> 00:07:44.120use the term abortion meal, right. I actually will use the term abortion9900:07:44.240 --> 00:07:47.589clinic or abortion center. Yeah,now I do try to steer clear of10000:07:47.629 --> 00:07:51.149abortion clinic so much because I don'twant to validate it, because it's not10100:07:51.269 --> 00:07:56.310a clinic, because when you thinkof clinic, you think of healthcare and10200:07:56.709 --> 00:08:01.540really helping people and doctors that actuallydo good things. Yeah, but I10300:08:01.180 --> 00:08:05.420do that and I use that termand knowledge and I steer clear of abortion10400:08:05.579 --> 00:08:09.180meal so that people aren't, youknow, just wondering what are you even10500:08:09.180 --> 00:08:11.579talking about? You know, you'respeaking your lingo and they don't really understand10600:08:11.620 --> 00:08:15.529what you're talking about. Yeah,right. So just to avoid all that,10700:08:15.610 --> 00:08:18.930I just use abortion center, right, or abortion clinic, but I10800:08:20.009 --> 00:08:22.529might talk about it being an abortionmeal and then explain that. You know,10900:08:22.569 --> 00:08:26.129I think it's important for us,if we're going to use terms that11000:08:26.279 --> 00:08:31.439people don't normally connect with, thatwe take time to explain those terms,11100:08:31.080 --> 00:08:37.159because terms and big words sometimes canmake people pause and think about that.11200:08:37.480 --> 00:08:41.990Right, but I think it's upto US sometimes to explain those words.11300:08:41.110 --> 00:08:46.669So, for example, if I'mat the abortion meal and I'm calling out11400:08:46.710 --> 00:08:50.830to a mom who obviously doesn't knowthe Lord, I want to share the11500:08:50.950 --> 00:08:52.990Gospel, right, I want herto know the Lord, and I'm going11600:08:54.029 --> 00:08:56.659to talk about repentance and I'm goingto talk about sin and I will use11700:08:56.700 --> 00:09:01.500the word fornication, I will talkabout sex outside of marriage and I'll show11800:09:01.539 --> 00:09:05.179when uses anymore. I M Biblicalword and we just don't hear it much11900:09:05.259 --> 00:09:09.340any it's not a popular word.Su Sure. Yeah, and I do12000:09:09.500 --> 00:09:13.769that actually intense right, because Ithink that it it's maybe for some people12100:09:13.850 --> 00:09:16.769it's a archaic word or whatever.Yeah, but I do it and then12200:09:16.769 --> 00:09:18.929I explain it. So I'll saysomething like, you know, the Bible12300:09:18.970 --> 00:09:24.480says that fornication is sin inside ofGod, and I'll say fornication is sex12400:09:24.559 --> 00:09:28.279outside of marriage. So then I'mbringing a word into the equation to help12500:09:28.320 --> 00:09:31.559them to think about it and thenI'm explaining that word. Because if it's12600:09:31.559 --> 00:09:35.320just say fornication is wrong, yeah, where I just say repent. So12700:09:35.440 --> 00:09:37.000if I use the word repent,which we should, it's a biblical word.12800:09:37.080 --> 00:09:39.950Yeah, I will say. Soyou need to repent. That means12900:09:39.990 --> 00:09:43.669you need to turn away from yoursin and turn to the Lord, right,13000:09:43.029 --> 00:09:46.190right. Yeah, yeah, andI think that word has kind of13100:09:46.230 --> 00:09:52.220a bit of a shock value becauseit's just so acceptable, yeah, today's13200:09:52.299 --> 00:09:56.259society, that everybody does it.Everybody has sex outside of marriage. So,13300:09:56.820 --> 00:10:01.860but if you apply a word thatclearly God meant it in a negative13400:10:01.860 --> 00:10:05.059way, yeah, then I thinkit and most people have read the Bible,13500:10:05.100 --> 00:10:07.889at least here in this area,and they they might look at it13600:10:07.929 --> 00:10:11.610a little bit differently. Yeah,it. How about just the word pill?13700:10:13.129 --> 00:10:16.649Yeah, that it's an abortion pill. So what do you think of13800:10:16.809 --> 00:10:20.009when you think of pill? Yeah, you know, you think of I13900:10:20.169 --> 00:10:24.159think kind of a quick fix,yeah, to your situation. You know,14000:10:24.240 --> 00:10:26.480you got a headache, Hey,you take a head but it's a14100:10:26.559 --> 00:10:31.159life saving right, it will,it relieves undesirable symptoms and and it and14200:10:31.559 --> 00:10:35.070in some cases it saves lives.We take pills, medicine, whatever they14300:10:35.110 --> 00:10:39.269want to coronavirus medicine, pills,something that will, that will lend this14400:10:39.750 --> 00:10:45.629this pandemic. Yeah, and course, again it speaks of healthcare and a14500:10:45.710 --> 00:10:48.590helpful thing, right, most ofthe time. Yeah, but of course,14600:10:48.669 --> 00:10:52.500in this case, right, we'renot really talking about as far as14700:10:52.539 --> 00:10:56.379the abortion peel is concerned, it'sreally not an abortion peel. It's actually14800:10:56.379 --> 00:11:01.340an abortion pill regiment. Right,they give to medications. Yeah, and14900:11:01.379 --> 00:11:03.820I do take time to explain that. You know, we have in our15000:11:03.899 --> 00:11:07.490brochure that we hand out to peoplegoing into the abortion center the abortion pill15100:11:07.490 --> 00:11:11.649procedure and describes it and how itworks. Yeah, because again, it's15200:11:11.690 --> 00:11:13.769not you. I'll say that onmicrophone. Sometimes I'll say that. You15300:11:13.850 --> 00:11:16.169know, this is not just themagic peel that you take, your baby15400:11:16.210 --> 00:11:18.919disappears. You going with your right, right, but it's also an act15500:11:18.960 --> 00:11:22.360of violence. Yeah, and themedication that you take is going to kill15600:11:22.360 --> 00:11:26.840your child and then the second medicationthat they give you to take it home,15700:11:26.000 --> 00:11:30.679you're going to deliver your dead babyin the toilet, and pretty violently,15800:11:30.960 --> 00:11:33.429with pretty violent conection. Anyone isout there listening, you've seen the15900:11:33.470 --> 00:11:39.990unplanned movie and it really graphically showsis how an abortion pill procedures carried through.16000:11:41.269 --> 00:11:43.309Yeah, that is the reality ofit. Yeah. Yeah, so16100:11:43.389 --> 00:11:46.980that word pill makes it seem likeany see and it's yeah, it's no16200:11:48.100 --> 00:11:50.940big deal, I'm going to takethis peel. I just taking the peel16300:11:50.019 --> 00:11:54.379right. Yeah, and yeah,it sanitizes it. Yeah, than exact.16400:11:54.419 --> 00:11:56.820makes it seem like something it's notas bad as actually is. Yeah,16500:11:56.940 --> 00:12:00.779even the word pro choice, we'vetalked about that. The word pro16600:12:01.139 --> 00:12:05.450pro choice. It's a pro where. Really, what they're saying is is16700:12:05.490 --> 00:12:09.850we see very clearly that they're notsupportive of the choice for life. They16800:12:09.889 --> 00:12:16.919do everything in their power to preventthe MOM's from choosing life in that at16900:12:16.919 --> 00:12:20.840least in that parking lot and wherewe're standing on the sidewalk. So it's17000:12:20.919 --> 00:12:26.840really it's a choice for the murderof an innocent unborn baby. But you17100:12:28.000 --> 00:12:31.669never hear that. They don't saythat. You know, one of the17200:12:31.750 --> 00:12:35.710things I've said pro choice people andto, you know, the MOMS going17300:12:35.750 --> 00:12:39.909into the abortion center when I thinkit's appropriate. Yeah, is the word17400:12:39.990 --> 00:12:43.070choice. You know, you're herebecause you want to exercise your right of17500:12:43.149 --> 00:12:46.940choice. You're right to choose.There are the word choice itself implies the17600:12:48.059 --> 00:12:52.740availability of more than one option.If you only have one option, you17700:12:52.899 --> 00:12:58.019don't have choice. Yeah, andin an abortion center and an abortion clinic,17800:12:58.259 --> 00:13:01.529clinic, in an abortion meal.Yeah, they're not offering other options17900:13:01.570 --> 00:13:05.129right. I mean they're not layingout a brochure and says, okay,18000:13:05.169 --> 00:13:07.409you can choose adoption, you canchoose to part your child are you can18100:13:07.529 --> 00:13:13.519choose abortion. They're not doing thatright. And you know you wouldn't expect18200:13:13.559 --> 00:13:16.480them to write because they make money. All there. Its children at it18300:13:16.600 --> 00:13:22.159that right. And so choice IMPLAUSI. Availability of more than one option.18400:13:22.279 --> 00:13:24.480But we all know when people saytheir pro choice. We are they talking18500:13:24.480 --> 00:13:28.110about? Yeah, we're talking aboutabortion. Their pro abortion, right,18600:13:28.149 --> 00:13:31.149right. That's the reality of it. And of course they claim that we're18700:13:31.230 --> 00:13:35.309just pro birth. Yeah, Imean I'm fine with that term. I'm18800:13:35.350 --> 00:13:37.590pro birth. Yeah, I'm I'mglad you're born, Vicky. I'm glad18900:13:37.590 --> 00:13:41.539I was born. I'm even gladthere's those pro abortion people were born,19000:13:41.860 --> 00:13:46.019you know, but we're pro you, pro you living beyond birth to yeah,19100:13:46.059 --> 00:13:48.419I mean, that's that's all justa bunch. Yeah, yea,19200:13:48.019 --> 00:13:52.580so many of the people that accompanythe abortion patients. I don't actually that's19300:13:52.580 --> 00:13:58.649another one. Patient. Yeah,patient. Well, they're not patients.19400:13:58.409 --> 00:14:03.529Their clients may be clients that,you know, contributing to the murder of19500:14:03.570 --> 00:14:07.129their own child, but they're reallynot. Yeah, patients. Patients are19600:14:07.210 --> 00:14:13.080someone who have some sort of disease, right, that needs help clearing it19700:14:13.159 --> 00:14:16.600up, and pregnancy is not adisease, it is a normal process.19800:14:16.639 --> 00:14:20.679Yeah, actually had somebody on facebook. I think I might have put a19900:14:20.840 --> 00:14:24.039quote out there, not a quote, but a post out there on facebook,20000:14:24.080 --> 00:14:26.429on our public facebook page, sharein how many abortion patients were in20100:14:26.509 --> 00:14:30.750there. And you know, Iuse that word because people know what you're20200:14:30.750 --> 00:14:33.629talking about, and they correct mesaid these are not patience, these are20300:14:33.669 --> 00:14:35.269aboarding moms. Yeah, exactly,and I was like, you know what,20400:14:35.429 --> 00:14:39.299yeah, you're right. Yeah,and so moving forward I'm kind of20500:14:39.340 --> 00:14:41.379doing the best I can, becausethat's what these are, aboarding mom they're20600:14:41.460 --> 00:14:46.059there other people that are here tokill their children. So the people that20700:14:46.179 --> 00:14:50.940comment, that accompany them, arecalled support people, support support people,20800:14:50.100 --> 00:14:54.769and in fact, I love thisthat you said this. I believe it20900:14:54.889 --> 00:14:58.730was last week, and I justloved it and it's so perfect for what21000:14:58.850 --> 00:15:03.690we're discussing now, where one ofthe support people said you were eloquently speaking21100:15:03.730 --> 00:15:07.360to him about he needed to goin there and help this woman to make21200:15:07.440 --> 00:15:13.120a godly choice and to preserve thatbaby and to really help that woman because21300:15:13.120 --> 00:15:18.960abortion is so devastating to women aswell. And the man said, look,21400:15:18.480 --> 00:15:26.149I'm I'm not the father, I'mjust here for moral support. Moral21500:15:26.470 --> 00:15:31.070support. Think about that, andwhich you pointed out so wonderfully. Well,21600:15:31.309 --> 00:15:33.230you know, if you're here formoral support, there has to be21700:15:33.389 --> 00:15:39.620something moral they are supporting. Yeah, and the death of an innocent human21800:15:39.700 --> 00:15:43.580being through brutal violment means is notmoral. Yeah, and anybody immoral.21900:15:43.659 --> 00:15:46.740It's very immoral. I think that'swhat you said to him. This isn't22000:15:46.940 --> 00:15:50.769im moral. Support is is basicallyso. The word, though, the22100:15:50.850 --> 00:15:56.450word that even these people that accompanythe women trying to make them feel it's22200:15:56.649 --> 00:16:02.330okay for them to be there rightin whatever capacity, or support person in22300:16:02.490 --> 00:16:06.039her. So you are. That'sa positive or positive thing. You're holding22400:16:06.120 --> 00:16:08.440them up in their time of need. But really, what they are they're22500:16:08.559 --> 00:16:15.399an accessory. They're an accessory tomurder and God will call them to account.22600:16:15.440 --> 00:16:18.590Yeah, for their part in that. I had a mom last week22700:16:18.669 --> 00:16:22.950actually, who she chose life andone of her relatives was aboarding and she22800:16:23.070 --> 00:16:26.950was paying for it, right,and she knew that it was wrong and22900:16:27.110 --> 00:16:30.429she was there. She had chosenlike purpose. She was coming to support23000:16:30.509 --> 00:16:34.620the heather. Well, they theycame together and and one of them stopped23100:16:34.820 --> 00:16:38.940to talk to me. Okay,shows life. And while we're counseling her,23200:16:40.580 --> 00:16:45.500the nurse comes to get the paymentfor the relative who was aboarding and23300:16:45.659 --> 00:16:48.210we did our best to try andtalk this mom, who chose life,23400:16:48.490 --> 00:16:52.250out of being an accessory to murder, and she kept saying, I'm just23500:16:52.929 --> 00:16:57.610I can't, I have to supportmy sister. Yeah, so that words23600:16:57.730 --> 00:17:02.879support, that it's considered support,when really, what are you doing?23700:17:03.519 --> 00:17:07.799You're helping someone to murder a baby. And words matter. I think a23800:17:08.000 --> 00:17:12.400good analogy or something that people canconnect with, and I use it often23900:17:12.480 --> 00:17:17.869times if I'm talking to US supportperson who's just there to support their friend.24000:17:18.069 --> 00:17:21.029Right, I'll say something like well, if they were at the bar24100:17:21.470 --> 00:17:22.710and had a little too much ofdrink and they got their keys in their24200:17:22.750 --> 00:17:26.950hand and are walking toward the doorto get in their car and drop down24300:17:26.950 --> 00:17:30.660the road, would you support them? Yeah, because if you didn't do24400:17:30.819 --> 00:17:33.539something to stop them, if youjust ignored that, or if you hopped24500:17:33.579 --> 00:17:37.180in the car with them, right, and someone got killed, you would24600:17:37.180 --> 00:17:41.980be an accessory. Right, youcould be tried and you could be convicted.24700:17:41.019 --> 00:17:45.529Yeah, for not helping your frienddo the right thing. Yeah,24800:17:45.529 --> 00:17:48.490you're culpable, you know. Oryou know, if your friend told you,24900:17:48.170 --> 00:17:51.970Hey, I want to get robthis bank, would you ride along25000:17:52.009 --> 00:17:55.049with me? Right, if youhop in the car with them, you25100:17:55.130 --> 00:17:57.880might not do any of the robbing, you might be you might even be25200:17:57.960 --> 00:18:00.480opposed to it, and you talkingto him the whole way. Hey,25300:18:00.480 --> 00:18:04.559I don't want you to rob thisbank, but you're involving in that.25400:18:04.680 --> 00:18:08.920You're being in that vehicle, evendriving the getaway car. Its hearty agreement25500:18:10.000 --> 00:18:14.029to that right. So they arean accessory to that. Now, of25600:18:14.150 --> 00:18:17.549course, words do mean something andwith our language and with the tone that25700:18:17.630 --> 00:18:19.109we use, in the way thatwe speak, we're not just out there25800:18:19.190 --> 00:18:25.309on the sidewalk lamb basting everyone.Right, you're all bunch of wicked accessories25900:18:25.349 --> 00:18:27.619to murder. When we're given aone on one opportunity, we use those26000:18:27.660 --> 00:18:32.420words and we want it the conviction, the Holy Spirit to come because ultimately,26100:18:32.420 --> 00:18:33.059you mean, you can yell asloud as you want, you use26200:18:33.099 --> 00:18:36.980all the words you want. Ultimately, of the Holy Spirit doesn't convict them,26300:18:37.019 --> 00:18:40.220there's no change going to take place. So we're trusting in the Lord26400:18:40.220 --> 00:18:44.890and we're trusting in God's timing.We're trusting in God's ability to reach their26500:18:44.970 --> 00:18:48.569hearts. But we do need tobe truthful with our language. We need26600:18:48.769 --> 00:18:52.410do need to be calculated with thelanguage that we use so that people don't26700:18:52.410 --> 00:18:56.960let themselves because people will use languagein their own minds to let themselves off26800:18:56.039 --> 00:18:57.839the hook. Right, we can'tdo that. Yeah, and they do26900:18:57.880 --> 00:19:02.079it with the word feed is forthere's many, many words for baby.27000:19:02.200 --> 00:19:04.880Fetus is one that's that's kind offunny in a way because feet is just27100:19:06.039 --> 00:19:10.869means little one. It's Latin forlittle one. It's not like it's saying27200:19:10.950 --> 00:19:14.789in some way fetus is not baby, right, but it makes them feel27300:19:14.789 --> 00:19:18.910better because you're not saying baby.But one of my least favorite, why?27400:19:18.910 --> 00:19:25.140I have two least favorite one isjust station calling the baby a jest.27500:19:25.140 --> 00:19:27.180Station. Yeah, that to me. I don't know. That one27600:19:27.380 --> 00:19:32.180bothers me a lot. And thesecond one that bothers me a lot that27700:19:32.299 --> 00:19:36.779you hear in the abortion industry isproduct of conception, right, yeah,27800:19:36.859 --> 00:19:41.130the product of conception. That's halfa product of conception. Party for for27900:19:41.329 --> 00:19:47.369the the pregnant conception shower, right, exactly, in products of conception shower.28000:19:47.529 --> 00:19:49.329You know these MOMS when they findout they're pregnant, your moms who28100:19:49.329 --> 00:19:52.880were excited about their babies. Right, don't put out there, Hey,28200:19:52.119 --> 00:19:56.680I have a product of conception,might be a girl or boy. Right,28300:19:56.880 --> 00:19:57.559what do you think? We're goingto have? A yeah, GIN28400:19:57.640 --> 00:20:03.720to reveal fromm probably from station.Product of conceptive, the word I hate.28500:20:03.960 --> 00:20:07.269Yeah, Watch, I mentioned earlier, is pregnancy, your pregnancy.28600:20:07.309 --> 00:20:08.789We're going to take care, we'regoing to remove your pregnancy. No,28700:20:10.029 --> 00:20:12.549you're not. That's it's not apregnancy, it's a baby. In any28800:20:12.589 --> 00:20:18.470other scenario, yeah, I've saidthis to a boarding mother's in any other28900:20:18.549 --> 00:20:21.740scenario, if you were excited aboutthis baby, you wouldn't refer to it29000:20:21.779 --> 00:20:25.019as a pregnancy. Doesn't matter howearly you are, you would say I'm29100:20:25.220 --> 00:20:27.539having a baby. You know,you recommend that. The moment that you29200:20:27.619 --> 00:20:30.259find out it's a baby. It'snot like, well, this, this29300:20:30.420 --> 00:20:34.339is just its ego to or blasticider, you just don't say that that was29400:20:34.380 --> 00:20:41.089say it. It's unless you're tryingto avoid certain realities, you're going to29500:20:41.170 --> 00:20:44.329recognize it's a baby when you seethose two lines on that pregnancy test.29600:20:44.410 --> 00:20:47.609You didn't think, Oh, I'mcarrying a pregnancy, I have just station29700:20:48.329 --> 00:20:52.640you know, I've got a projectyof conception or a fetus, so have29800:20:52.880 --> 00:20:56.039a baby. I'm a mother exactly. And that kind of brings us.29900:20:56.359 --> 00:21:02.160Brings me to this other thault andthe words that we use when we're addressing30000:21:02.200 --> 00:21:04.869the women going into the abortion center. We do say, young lady,30100:21:04.869 --> 00:21:07.750please come over and talked with us. We call me a young lady.30200:21:07.829 --> 00:21:12.069were, of course, kind andgentle in our tone, but we call30300:21:12.150 --> 00:21:15.829a mom's also. Yeah, wesay my mom, go in there and30400:21:15.910 --> 00:21:18.380take the life of your baby,because that's the reality, right. Are30500:21:18.500 --> 00:21:22.220Mother's yeah, exactly, and it'snot like we're trying to just reduce them30600:21:22.299 --> 00:21:26.059to mother's which is something I've heardpeople say. It is that we are30700:21:26.180 --> 00:21:32.970pointing out. This is there,there as a mother about to slaughter their30800:21:33.009 --> 00:21:38.170child, and the reminder you area mother. That alone can sometimes have30900:21:38.849 --> 00:21:44.130value and power. Yeah, you'rea mother. Yeah, because the truth31000:21:44.210 --> 00:21:48.079is that she is a mother atthe moment of conception. Yeah, yeah,31100:21:48.079 --> 00:21:52.119you know, a mother is afemale, yeah, who has offspring.31200:21:52.279 --> 00:21:56.960Yeah, right. Yeah, shehas in her womb offspring, she31300:21:57.119 --> 00:22:00.200has a child, yeah, herbaby, her son or daughter, and31400:22:00.279 --> 00:22:04.910that baby has gender. It's eithera he or she rather than an it.31500:22:06.309 --> 00:22:10.789Yeah, so we're very conscious aboutusing gender specific he or she,31600:22:11.029 --> 00:22:15.099your son or your yeah, ratherthan referring to the baby as as it.31700:22:15.819 --> 00:22:19.420You know who. I'll share thistestimony at some point. I won't31800:22:19.420 --> 00:22:22.259get into any length. Maybe we'llhave this young lady on. Okay,31900:22:22.460 --> 00:22:26.900the young lady who had put apost out on facebook and also put it32000:22:26.940 --> 00:22:30.250out in our blog about the younglady who, you know, I thought32100:22:30.369 --> 00:22:33.569was actually going into a board afterwe had talked to her and I said32200:22:33.569 --> 00:22:37.369please, don't do this, andshe turned around and said I'm going in32300:22:37.450 --> 00:22:40.250for a refunds if she got hermoney back. I mean, awesome,32400:22:40.329 --> 00:22:42.009the Lord just moves. She goton, went on the mobile unit after32500:22:42.089 --> 00:22:45.519having been in the in the abortioncenter. She went on the mobile unit,32600:22:45.839 --> 00:22:48.160gave her life to the Lord.Her and her mother actually came back32700:22:48.400 --> 00:22:53.319that next Friday, wow and gavebrought me a gift basket in a car32800:22:53.559 --> 00:22:59.789to saying thank you for being avoice that was there. And her mother32900:22:59.869 --> 00:23:03.630actually was talking about the baby andshe used the word is. She said,33000:23:03.670 --> 00:23:04.990yeah, it's going to be sucha blessing. And she said,33100:23:06.069 --> 00:23:07.829wait a minute, I shouldn't saythe word it. Oh, even she33200:23:08.069 --> 00:23:12.740bet, even she recognized it.Even she recognized sometimes in our regular common33300:23:12.779 --> 00:23:17.420language we might use the word itreferring to the baby in the womb because33400:23:17.460 --> 00:23:19.299you don't know whether it's a boyor girl, which he even caught herself33500:23:19.339 --> 00:23:23.339sit. I didn't refer to ourbaby as ant. You my grandchild,33600:23:23.420 --> 00:23:26.329isn't it? That's my grand baby. Yeah, yeah, it's yes,33700:23:26.450 --> 00:23:30.410I'm story. Yeah, and anotherword that we use a lot is blessing,33800:23:32.130 --> 00:23:36.490and that's the positive what a childis. They are in less seen33900:23:36.569 --> 00:23:40.490and throughout the Bible every child isdescribed as a blessing. Yeah, but34000:23:40.849 --> 00:23:45.279the the negative, the words thatare used in the abortion industry and from34100:23:45.319 --> 00:23:48.920the mothers themselves is that this isa problem, right, yeah, or34200:23:49.640 --> 00:23:55.710if cold, situation or condition.Yeah, and sometimes just shifting the focus34300:23:55.750 --> 00:23:57.789is not a negative one. Itdoesn't need to be a negative one.34400:23:57.869 --> 00:24:03.349Yeah, and that that baby isa blessing. So one of the things34500:24:03.390 --> 00:24:07.630that I did that was really,I think, illuminating, is going to34600:24:07.750 --> 00:24:11.900the website of the abortion center,okay, and and looking at some of34700:24:11.940 --> 00:24:17.380the abortion center here on the tree, abortion center here Charlotte. Right.34800:24:18.059 --> 00:24:22.140So that there's so many and Iwon't hit every one of them, but34900:24:22.819 --> 00:24:26.849one of the line said we believeevery woman should have control of her life35000:24:27.009 --> 00:24:32.250and her personal decisions. So I'mreading that and that sounds wonderful. That's35100:24:32.329 --> 00:24:34.089true. You know, you shouldhave control of your life in your personal35200:24:34.130 --> 00:24:37.730decision. But this is what theymean. That they're not saying. What35300:24:37.809 --> 00:24:42.720they truly mean is every mother shouldbe able to murder their own child without35400:24:42.720 --> 00:24:48.960anyone else telling her it is wicked, evil, unnatural or wrong. Yeah,35500:24:48.200 --> 00:24:52.599that now, if they wrote that, if a doubt, that would35600:24:52.640 --> 00:24:56.029be very well received by their clienttail. Probably not. I probably would35700:24:56.029 --> 00:25:00.789lower the rates at which they wereable to make money off of killing children.35800:25:00.829 --> 00:25:06.269Private appointment, private appointment. Thatsounds good, that that's a private35900:25:06.670 --> 00:25:11.420they offer a private appointment. Sowhat that is in actuality is a scheduled36000:25:11.500 --> 00:25:17.819time when mothers would be able toget away with murdering their unborn child with36100:25:17.900 --> 00:25:22.849the utmost secrecy for an increased cost. Yeah, but it's called a private36200:25:22.890 --> 00:25:27.849appointment, which sounds very yeah,wonderful, it does. So, and36300:25:29.130 --> 00:25:32.849and there's so much we won't getinto all of them. But they,36400:25:33.250 --> 00:25:37.960they, it's called reproductive healthcare insteadof the brutal murder, yeah, of36500:25:37.000 --> 00:25:41.839an unborn baby. They have counselorsthere who are said to be sincere,36600:25:42.079 --> 00:25:49.789caring women who are committed to helpingeach individual patient complete their treatment. treatment.36700:25:51.109 --> 00:25:53.390Yeah, okay, treatment. Whatis treatment? I mean treatment,36800:25:53.470 --> 00:25:56.630you think. Okay, if you'rehaving a treatment, that you have a36900:25:56.710 --> 00:25:59.869condition. Of course, that's playsright into the whole thing. Pregnancy is37000:25:59.869 --> 00:26:02.630a condition, right, as faras these people are concerned. Yeah,37100:26:03.509 --> 00:26:07.019but yeah, so it sounds liketreating a condition. It sounds like dealing37200:26:07.059 --> 00:26:11.140with a condition. And this treatmentis not the brutal murder order of an37300:26:11.180 --> 00:26:15.259unborn baby. This is, youknow, it's a treatment. Yes,37400:26:15.460 --> 00:26:18.049the termination of a pregnancy. It'sthe removal of the product of conception.37500:26:18.089 --> 00:26:23.650And get this, this kills mehelping to complete their treatment with the best37600:26:23.970 --> 00:26:34.839possible emotional, physical and spiritual outcome. Wow, that's on the abortion center37700:26:34.920 --> 00:26:41.279website, that this treatment the killingof an unborn child created by God in37800:26:41.440 --> 00:26:52.990his image. That treatment will becarefully completed for the best optimal spiritualcome.37900:26:53.029 --> 00:27:00.269Yeah, which is blasphemy, lashman'sBologny. Yeah, I mean, goodness,38000:27:00.670 --> 00:27:06.180abortion, as far as spiritually concerned, destroys women. Yeah, I38100:27:06.259 --> 00:27:10.420mean we know, we've heard thetestimonies, we've seen people coming out of38200:27:10.500 --> 00:27:14.980that abortion clinic, just spiritually,emotionally, physically, yeah, just Straw.38300:27:15.140 --> 00:27:18.650Yeah, this is not. Imean abortion is a spiritual thing,38400:27:18.809 --> 00:27:22.809just like sacrificing a goat to thedevil is a spiritual thanks, right,38500:27:22.849 --> 00:27:27.650I mean this is yeah, it'sa satanic thing. Yes, the destruction38600:27:29.569 --> 00:27:33.000of an unborn child, image bearerof Almighty God. Yeah, you know.38700:27:33.200 --> 00:27:37.559So that gets into some of theterminology as far as the scripture is38800:27:37.640 --> 00:27:45.150concerned. When we look scripturally whatthe Bible describes the Unborn Child Ass.38900:27:45.230 --> 00:27:48.789You know, we have terms likein someone thirty nine, you knit me39000:27:48.950 --> 00:27:52.509together in my mother's womb. Imean what, what's the implications of those39100:27:52.549 --> 00:27:56.190words when you think about me ittogether? Yeah, yeah, there's purposeful39200:27:56.390 --> 00:28:04.180design and care and intricacy. Yeah, yeah, intricacy, purpose, even39300:28:04.299 --> 00:28:11.019destiny. Love, yeah, love, care, fearfully and wonderfully made is39400:28:11.140 --> 00:28:12.569in that same Oh, yes,some, right. So then you have39500:28:14.009 --> 00:28:18.769terms like if fearfully wonderfully made,wonderful, it goes on to say in39600:28:18.849 --> 00:28:21.809that Psalm and I love I lovepreaching about that song. Yeah, because39700:28:21.809 --> 00:28:26.130there's so many good words in there, the best words. Yeah, marvelous39800:28:26.490 --> 00:28:29.640are your works. Yeah, andthat my soul knows real well that word39900:28:29.799 --> 00:28:33.119marvelous. Yeah, when I thinkof it, I think of the Grand40000:28:33.160 --> 00:28:36.720Canyon, I think of the God'screation, I think of looking at an40100:28:36.720 --> 00:28:41.319ultrasound image of a baby in thewomb and and marvel at the handiwork of40200:28:41.470 --> 00:28:45.029God. Yeah, your mouth dropsopen, you're astounded. Right, and40300:28:45.190 --> 00:28:48.869that's the words that the scripture usesconcerning the child, that the abortion industry40400:28:48.910 --> 00:28:56.220uses, words like you, productof conception and treatment, and condition,40500:28:56.420 --> 00:29:00.900like pregnancies, a condition. Wordof God uses these rich, powerful,40600:29:00.740 --> 00:29:07.019life filled or right, like wonderful, like marvelous, like knit. Another40700:29:07.099 --> 00:29:10.849word in that Psalm, and someone hundred and thirty nine is you covered40800:29:11.009 --> 00:29:14.970me. Ever here be thought aboutthat word. You covered me in my40900:29:15.089 --> 00:29:17.609mother's WOM. You know, acouple of years ago I was meditating on41000:29:17.730 --> 00:29:22.289that Psalm and just meditating on whatdoes that mean? You covered me in41100:29:22.450 --> 00:29:29.279my mother's WOM and it really meansit speaks of the involvement of God.41200:29:29.759 --> 00:29:33.960So David is the psalmist there andhe's talking about how God he know.41300:29:33.039 --> 00:29:36.480He starts the Psalm saying God,you know when I sit down and when41400:29:36.480 --> 00:29:37.910I rise up, you know mythoughts from afar, you know all my41500:29:38.029 --> 00:29:41.710days before even one of them cameto pass. And so he's talking about41600:29:41.710 --> 00:29:45.029how God knows him and loves himand has plans for him. And then41700:29:45.029 --> 00:29:48.950he takes it, of course,from just being outside the womb, being41800:29:49.069 --> 00:29:52.390on the earth. He's talking aboutbeing inside the women. He said you41900:29:52.509 --> 00:29:56.380covered me, means you were involved, you were concerned protecting you. You42000:29:56.539 --> 00:29:59.779cover me now, but you coveredme w while I was my mother's way42100:29:59.779 --> 00:30:02.819back then. Yeah, and themoment of conception. So you know,42200:30:02.900 --> 00:30:07.369scripturally, words means something. Yeah, words like what we talked about earlier,42300:30:07.369 --> 00:30:12.210about fornication and repentance. And then, of course those are, I42400:30:12.289 --> 00:30:19.769don't say negative words, they're meantto bring about negative connotations and ultimately positive42500:30:19.769 --> 00:30:22.920change. Right, but then again, you have these life giving words and42600:30:23.039 --> 00:30:27.559you have the word like gift.Children are a gift to your children.42700:30:27.720 --> 00:30:32.960Some thirty or one, twenty sevenchildren are a heritage. Yeah, from42800:30:33.039 --> 00:30:36.230the Lord less. It is hewhose quivers full. So, yeah,42900:30:36.309 --> 00:30:38.990we ever full is presented as ajoy. where? How many people with43000:30:40.109 --> 00:30:45.829large families find that? People chastisethe Oh yeah, yeah, and they're43100:30:45.829 --> 00:30:49.500my wife has come to me andthat just been, I don't know,43200:30:49.740 --> 00:30:53.220offended probably not the right word,but distraught, whatever it's like. Yeah,43300:30:53.299 --> 00:30:56.420you know, is that the storeand everybody's looking at me. I43400:30:56.460 --> 00:30:57.579had all the kids with me,she don't normally take all the kids to43500:30:57.700 --> 00:31:00.740the store, but yeah, wehave eight kids, by the way,43600:31:00.779 --> 00:31:03.569for those who are listening right.And so she's walking through the store and43700:31:03.609 --> 00:31:07.970she's all these people are looking ather. You know, she even had43800:31:07.049 --> 00:31:10.529people ask of them. And ifany of you guys are listening that have43900:31:10.690 --> 00:31:12.410large families, you probably going toask this. Are All these kids you're44000:31:12.849 --> 00:31:15.690you know, are they all fromthe same any poor thing or whatever?44100:31:15.769 --> 00:31:19.440Yeah, thing, bless your horn. Yeah, and one person even asked44200:31:19.440 --> 00:31:22.680her. Actually, a couple ofpeople best your they all from the same44300:31:22.720 --> 00:31:26.079father as like, okay, wordsmean something and you need to put those44400:31:26.119 --> 00:31:30.359words back in your mouth. That'sridiculous, but I encourage your one time44500:31:30.359 --> 00:31:33.549I said, you know what,imagine everybody's looking at you funny, whatever.44600:31:33.589 --> 00:31:37.470Imagine you're walking through the store andyou've got a cart full of money44700:31:37.910 --> 00:31:41.990and everybody's looking at you funny,and they're looking at you strange because you're44800:31:41.029 --> 00:31:45.230pushing a cart full of money andthey all wanted. Well, they may44900:31:45.269 --> 00:31:48.779be looking at you funny because theythink you're flouting your money or whatever.45000:31:48.099 --> 00:31:51.339Who knows why they're looking at youfunny, but are you really going to45100:31:51.460 --> 00:31:53.539care. Right, you got acart full of money. Right. Well,45200:31:53.539 --> 00:31:56.700according to the word of God andthe word that God's uses, children45300:31:56.740 --> 00:32:00.380are a blessing or a heritage fromthe right. When you're pushing a cart45400:32:00.420 --> 00:32:04.769full of kids through the store,you're pushing more than a cartful of money,45500:32:04.809 --> 00:32:07.170you're pushing a car full of blessing. So you know again, God's45600:32:07.250 --> 00:32:12.730Word Affirms Certain truths that we needto grab a hold of. Hey,45700:32:12.930 --> 00:32:16.440and in words do mean something andas we use really and as the as45800:32:16.680 --> 00:32:21.759the language goes. I heard this, I think, from Albert Molar just45900:32:21.880 --> 00:32:24.160a few weeks ago, a coupleweeks ago. As the language goes,46000:32:24.920 --> 00:32:30.869thus goes the culture. And soyou think about expanding beyond the pro pro46100:32:31.109 --> 00:32:37.390life, but just things like theword gay to describe homosexuality. It's there's46200:32:37.390 --> 00:32:42.190a very different picture when you hearthe word gay first when it first came46300:32:42.230 --> 00:32:45.500out. It gay is happy,joyful, whatever, and and it was46400:32:45.579 --> 00:32:51.900a way to to make homosexuality veryunaccepted back then when it first came out.46500:32:52.220 --> 00:32:54.539Yeah, and and to change howpeople would look at that. And46600:32:54.900 --> 00:33:00.890and that's what's happening big time inthe abortion industry. Is the words are46700:33:00.009 --> 00:33:06.490being used to make our culture believethat this is an innocuous and even a46800:33:06.650 --> 00:33:09.569good yeah, yeah, and it'sa sad reality. So guys it.46900:33:09.690 --> 00:33:14.519We won't encourage you. You knowagain, words mean something, words have47000:33:14.640 --> 00:33:16.839value to them. We need tobe intentional about the words that we use.47100:33:16.839 --> 00:33:21.720Yeah, we don't, of course, need to be nasty when we're47200:33:21.759 --> 00:33:24.759communicating with people, but we doneed to be clear, are as articulate47300:33:24.799 --> 00:33:28.710as possible. Yeah, we needto be biblical, you know, when47400:33:28.750 --> 00:33:31.750we're using terminology and now, itdoesn't mean we need to be like super47500:33:32.269 --> 00:33:35.710lofty in our speech, but ifwe do use, and I think we47600:33:35.750 --> 00:33:38.829should use, biblical language. Yeah, like I mentioned the example of using47700:33:38.869 --> 00:33:44.099the word fornication and then explain thosewords, explain what those words mean,47800:33:44.180 --> 00:33:49.180the word repentance, and then explainwhat that word means. So, as47900:33:49.299 --> 00:33:53.819we're standing for life, as we'restanding for truth, it's also contend for48000:33:53.900 --> 00:33:58.650the words that we use. Yeah, contend for the truths that are embodied48100:33:58.690 --> 00:34:02.769in those words. And as theLord obviously to help us. When you're48200:34:02.769 --> 00:34:07.409reaching out at an abortion clinic,you've got fifteen seconds. Well, at48300:34:07.409 --> 00:34:12.000least we do. Yeah, themost scenarios. Yeah, from their car48400:34:12.320 --> 00:34:15.800to the door, when they're walkingdown the sidewalk, everywhere it can got.48500:34:15.880 --> 00:34:19.119Yeah, everywhere, gaster, sheseconds. Yeah, every word counts.48600:34:19.280 --> 00:34:21.840Yeah, he said every word matters. Yeah. So we need to48700:34:21.880 --> 00:34:23.949be intentional, which is, youknow, part of part of what we48800:34:24.030 --> 00:34:28.070do in our trainings and stuff likethat. Right, part of what we're48900:34:28.070 --> 00:34:30.670doing on the sidewalks for life siteis trying to teach people, yeah,49000:34:30.829 --> 00:34:37.829how to speak, how to beeffective. Some folks have this mentality of49100:34:37.869 --> 00:34:40.780add an abortion clinic. We needto steer away from words like murder.49200:34:42.219 --> 00:34:45.019Hey, just your away from talkingabout God. Even. That's not what49300:34:45.139 --> 00:34:51.940we found at all. We foundthat your best method is to be graciously49400:34:52.099 --> 00:34:54.449forthright, like you don't need tobe around the bush. If woman's there49500:34:54.489 --> 00:34:58.489for an abortion, ask her,are you here from an abortion? Don't49600:34:58.530 --> 00:35:00.969talk about the weather, don't talkabout the way. You don't time man49700:35:01.010 --> 00:35:04.769or what do you know? Don'ttime that baby's on its way to destruction.49800:35:04.809 --> 00:35:07.679Yeah, and you've got to bringtruth into the equation. Right and49900:35:07.760 --> 00:35:12.760again, you do it graciously.I don't think it's effective. I actually50000:35:12.760 --> 00:35:15.239I know it's not effective. Justbe yelling abortion is murder of the whole50100:35:15.239 --> 00:35:19.880time. Right, but it iseffective to bring that word into the equation.50200:35:19.920 --> 00:35:22.630Yeah, to talk about the factthat abortion is murder. Yeah,50300:35:23.590 --> 00:35:27.550I think, certainly in the eyesof God. Yeah, there's just en50400:35:27.550 --> 00:35:30.550nothing. Talking about that word andbreaking that word down when you have an50500:35:30.590 --> 00:35:36.380opportunity to an abortion minded woman isa powerful way to show her the reality50600:35:36.380 --> 00:35:38.219of what she's doing. Right,but we need the Lord's help, right.50700:35:38.300 --> 00:35:42.659Yeah, God always. Yeah,we need God's help to help us50800:35:42.659 --> 00:35:45.820to bring clarity in the situations.I hope this podcast is help you guys50900:35:45.820 --> 00:35:49.420a little bit with words. Ihope this has been a blessing. Hope51000:35:49.500 --> 00:35:52.289all the podcasts are blessing to you. Let us know. Let us know51100:35:52.409 --> 00:35:54.289that this podcast was a blessing toyou. Let us know if you have51200:35:54.409 --> 00:35:58.730ideas for future podcast. We're goingto do one in the next couple of51300:35:58.809 --> 00:36:00.809weeks about adoption. Yeah, that'dbe esome. Yeah, and talking about51400:36:00.849 --> 00:36:07.400adoption, I get. I meanin the past month we've gotten messages through51500:36:07.480 --> 00:36:10.440facebooks or public facebook page about,you know, my family, we really51600:36:10.440 --> 00:36:14.519want to adopt. Is there anychance you can connect us with an abortion51700:36:14.719 --> 00:36:16.239minded mom at the abortion center thatwe can adopt her child. And,51800:36:16.280 --> 00:36:20.829yeah, I've personally gotten too yes, yeah, I've gotten a bunch.51900:36:20.949 --> 00:36:24.750And so we're going to talk alittle bit about how we mention adoption.52000:36:24.789 --> 00:36:29.909Yeah, at the abortion centers,and when it's appropriate and it's not appropriate.52100:36:29.949 --> 00:36:32.739You know, listen, guys,there are some inappropriate times to mention52200:36:32.780 --> 00:36:37.139adoption. There are sometimes that aadoption can be a non starter in a52300:36:37.219 --> 00:36:40.579conversation, can even be the dealbreaker. Ah, yeah, what sends52400:36:40.619 --> 00:36:45.099them running in? Yeah, I'vehad conversations stop writing their tracks I mentioned52500:36:45.139 --> 00:36:49.690the word adoption and a woman goingto the abortion center who would otherwise continue52600:36:49.730 --> 00:36:52.690to engage. Anyway. We're goingto talk about that in the coming weeks52700:36:52.730 --> 00:36:55.769with Jessica Moline. Hopefully we'll beable to pin her down. She's with52800:36:55.889 --> 00:37:00.449option, adoption, but we hopeyou guys are blessed with this podcast.52900:37:00.530 --> 00:37:07.519Please share it and until next time, God bless give me our love for53000:37:07.760 --> 00:37:20.949love, give me our love forgratitude. I know it will cost me53100:37:21.110 --> 00:37:28.869my life. Nothing's too precious.And some met you