Aug. 20, 2020
Sharing the Gospel at an Abortion Center-Unique Challenges

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As believers in Jesus, we should all be equipped to share the Gospel wherever the Lord calls us. However, there are some unique challenges that we face at an abortion center that make sharing the Gospel difficult. Join Vicky and Daniel as they talk...
As believers in Jesus, we should all be equipped to share the Gospel wherever the Lord calls us. However, there are some unique challenges that we face at an abortion center that make sharing the Gospel difficult. Join Vicky and Daniel as they talk through these challenges and how to overcome them.
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WEBVTT100:00:00.600 --> 00:00:05.759I Am Yours, I am yours, I am yours, s and me,200:00:06.120 --> 00:00:11.029Lord, I am yours. Welcometo the Gospel Center per life podcast.300:00:11.429 --> 00:00:14.750This episode, Vicki and out talkabout the unique challenges of sharing the400:00:14.830 --> 00:00:19.910Gospel at an abortion center and howto biblically overcome those challenges. Stay with500:00:20.030 --> 00:00:33.380us. I felt show passish touchsyour home. Use me he there.600:00:33.780 --> 00:00:38.929Welcome to the Gospel centered pro lifepodcast. I'm here with Daniel Parks.700:00:39.649 --> 00:00:44.689Today. We are going to talkabout the unique challenges of sharing the Gospel800:00:44.729 --> 00:00:49.289at an abortion center, because itis unique. It's not like sharing the900:00:49.329 --> 00:00:54.759Gospel at Walmart or at your localflea market, hanging out track to the1000:00:54.759 --> 00:01:00.759flea market's right, and it hassome unique challenges and we've really discovered that1100:01:00.039 --> 00:01:06.269in our years being out there.Yeah, that that there are some typical1200:01:06.349 --> 00:01:14.950rationalizations, justifications that you hear andthat you honestly can make matters worse by1300:01:15.909 --> 00:01:19.859what you decide to share with thewomen and you have to became even even1400:01:21.140 --> 00:01:25.540some tombs of the timing. Wedid a podcast some months ago about the1500:01:25.620 --> 00:01:30.180message of forgiveness and that there's areal need for us to think through our1600:01:30.260 --> 00:01:33.650timing as we're talking about forgiveness andthose sort of things. Of course the1700:01:33.689 --> 00:01:38.450Gospel includes the forgiveness of sin.So there are some challenges. There's some1800:01:38.569 --> 00:01:42.489timing issues we need to talk about, some wording issues, some some some1900:01:42.650 --> 00:01:48.000things that will confront in front ofan abortion center that we might not confront2000:01:48.040 --> 00:01:51.599and other scenarios when we're sharing theGospel. It's sound like the Gospel changes.2100:01:51.719 --> 00:01:55.879The Gospel doesn't. The Gospel isthe same yesterday, today and tomorrow.2200:01:56.000 --> 00:02:00.760The Gospel doesn't change, but thesituations in which you are presenting the2300:02:00.879 --> 00:02:06.109Gospel Do. Yeah, and Paulwas all things tall people and he learned2400:02:06.629 --> 00:02:12.229to look at the circumstances of thepeople to whom he was addressing and he2500:02:12.349 --> 00:02:16.860would alter his presentation based upon thatand he was obviously very successful. Yeah,2600:02:16.979 --> 00:02:21.460I think that is our goal.Yeah, first and foremost, I'll2700:02:21.860 --> 00:02:24.860just touch real quick on the necessityof the Gospel. Oh, that's a2800:02:24.939 --> 00:02:29.539great point. This is the GospelCenter, per life podcast, and we2900:02:29.860 --> 00:02:32.409always have to Change Our Name andthat we were certainly don't want to Change3000:02:32.409 --> 00:02:37.169Our Name and we don't want togo move away from the necessity of the3100:02:37.250 --> 00:02:43.169Gospel. Right understanding Romans Sixteen tellsus that the Gospel is the power of3200:02:43.289 --> 00:02:49.759God to salvation. We can't inventenough good strategies and ideas to trick people3300:02:49.800 --> 00:02:52.960into, you know, doing whatGod wants them to do. Know it's3400:02:53.000 --> 00:02:57.719the power of the Gospel and inthe Holy Spirit changing a human heart.3500:02:58.120 --> 00:03:00.870So I want to encourage all ofyou guys, because we can slip into3600:03:00.870 --> 00:03:04.789a mode we're involved in a ministrylike prolife ministry, we're really dealing with3700:03:05.030 --> 00:03:09.830life and death. We can slipinto like a humanitarian effort mode and neglect3800:03:09.870 --> 00:03:14.539the Gospel, make it a sideissue, make the Gospel something we kind3900:03:14.539 --> 00:03:17.020attack on at the end. Andthere are times when we can't just get4000:03:17.099 --> 00:03:21.180right to the Gospel. We aredealing with life and death and we need4100:03:21.300 --> 00:03:23.819to. Of course, everything wesay is seasoned with the Gospel, but4200:03:23.939 --> 00:03:29.490that we might need to address certainissues at this mom is facing and then4300:03:29.610 --> 00:03:31.650share the gospel. But it's notsomething we're just doing as a side issue.4400:03:31.889 --> 00:03:36.250The Gospel. It's got a seasoneverything that we do and it's got4500:03:36.330 --> 00:03:38.610to be ultimately, where we're gettingto with all of our conversations is what4600:03:38.770 --> 00:03:43.479God has done for lost human beingsto rescue and to save them from their4700:03:43.520 --> 00:03:46.919sin. Right. And I thinkI've heard many people say, well,4800:03:46.360 --> 00:03:52.560the Gospel really is simple. Well, it is, yeah, but we4900:03:52.639 --> 00:03:58.669don't want to become lazy in howwe present the simplicity of the Gospel,5000:03:58.710 --> 00:04:02.710because there are times that we makeit so simple that it becomes twisted and5100:04:02.750 --> 00:04:06.189rationalized in their mind. That's whatthey're doing. For example, the message5200:04:06.189 --> 00:04:10.740of forgiveness. Well, God willforgive us. That's the simple truth and5300:04:10.900 --> 00:04:13.539therefore it's okay for me to godo whatever I want to do. And5400:04:13.620 --> 00:04:16.860we know, certainly there's biblical proofthat. No, that is not right5500:04:17.139 --> 00:04:23.459accurate. So let's just maybe jumpright into us do it. The typical5600:04:23.620 --> 00:04:26.889rationalizations that we that we face.I wrote an article, as I often5700:04:26.930 --> 00:04:30.569do, as we're kind of organizingour thoughts here, and there are some5800:04:30.769 --> 00:04:35.449things that we have seen over andover and over again that are twisted rationalizations.5900:04:35.769 --> 00:04:42.519Using the Gospel to justify killing theirbabies. Yeah, so one of6000:04:42.560 --> 00:04:46.319the first ones. Number One,women claim to be believers as they plan6100:04:46.680 --> 00:04:50.240their babies death. Yeah, wehear it over and over again, certainly6200:04:50.240 --> 00:04:53.990in the Bible Belt. Absolutely.Yeah, you know, I'm going to6300:04:54.029 --> 00:04:57.310go and do this and God's goingto forgive me. There's this mentality that6400:04:57.629 --> 00:05:00.629somehow God is beholden to us,a is human beings, and he's got6500:05:00.709 --> 00:05:03.149to forgive us. Right, because, after all, that's what he was6600:05:03.269 --> 00:05:06.180created for, to forgive us andmake us feel better about ourselves. That's6700:05:06.220 --> 00:05:11.259the mentality. Yeah, and thereality, scripturally, is that we were6800:05:11.420 --> 00:05:15.500created for him, by him,that we're beholding to him. He's not6900:05:15.620 --> 00:05:19.139beholding to us. And God doesit have to forgive anyone for anything.7000:05:19.180 --> 00:05:24.129Right he he's not like some geniethat if you just do this magic formula,7100:05:24.209 --> 00:05:28.529somehow you're forgiven. It's more thatsomehow you do that magic formula and7200:05:28.610 --> 00:05:30.490you're a believer. Yeah, and, and in many cases that's what they're7300:05:30.490 --> 00:05:36.800saying. I'm I'm a believer andyou can't tell me I'm I'm not right.7400:05:38.920 --> 00:05:43.199And and the fact that I'm goingin to kill my child does not7500:05:43.560 --> 00:05:48.519demonstrate that my faith is not realor that my belief is not real.7600:05:49.069 --> 00:05:57.829And our point in pointing out thatthat maybe they are not believers is not7700:05:58.750 --> 00:06:06.139to to condemn or to to makethem feel that they are less of a7800:06:06.300 --> 00:06:11.860person than we are, but topoint out that if they are believers,7900:06:12.180 --> 00:06:15.180they won't kill their baby. Yeah, they will do what what, what8000:06:15.339 --> 00:06:17.459God says. So I've got agood verse for them. This is a8100:06:17.500 --> 00:06:24.930verse that I think directs, directlyaddresses this and and one that you can8200:06:24.970 --> 00:06:27.850use if you have someone who's saying, well, I'm Jesus, is my8300:06:28.050 --> 00:06:30.410Lord and you can't tell me he'snot, and I'm going to go in8400:06:30.449 --> 00:06:33.040there and kill my baby and thenask forgiveness. Yeah, so it's from8500:06:33.079 --> 00:06:38.000James to fourteen to seventeen. It'sthe verse. You want to read it,8600:06:38.319 --> 00:06:42.120sure, just save my voice.Yeah, what good is it,8700:06:42.439 --> 00:06:46.680my brothers, if someone says yes, faith but does not have works,8800:06:46.000 --> 00:06:49.750can that faith save him? Ifa brother or sister is poorly clothed,8900:06:49.790 --> 00:06:54.470lacking daily food, and one ofyou says to them go in peace,9000:06:54.550 --> 00:06:57.629be warm and filled, without givingthem the things needed for the body,9100:06:57.990 --> 00:07:00.230what good is that? So also, faith by itself, if it does9200:07:00.310 --> 00:07:05.779not have works, is dead.Yeah, and so this scripture tells us9300:07:05.899 --> 00:07:12.300that if you say that you havefaith, yeah, that's faith. Actually9400:07:12.339 --> 00:07:15.970should be demonstrated in what you do. It's not real faith, it's not9500:07:16.009 --> 00:07:24.089a living faith unless it's demonstrated inwhat you actually do. And of course9600:07:24.209 --> 00:07:29.250the Bible does not teach a worksbased salvation. Salvation is not by works,9700:07:29.850 --> 00:07:33.160but the natural outflow of salvation,of true faith in God, is9800:07:33.560 --> 00:07:39.959works. You're going to do thingsthat correspond with faith in God. And9900:07:40.040 --> 00:07:44.040if you're going to say that youhave faith and trust in God and yet10000:07:44.079 --> 00:07:48.029do something so egregious as killing yourchild, then you've demonstrated through your actions10100:07:48.310 --> 00:07:51.629that actually your faith is not real, it's not a substance of faith.10200:07:51.670 --> 00:07:59.620Yeah, and and for us asa Gospel Centered Ministry, it would be10300:07:59.819 --> 00:08:05.420doing a great disservice to women asthey go in or as they come out,10400:08:05.860 --> 00:08:09.860if they say I'm a believer,I put my faith in the Lord,10500:08:09.899 --> 00:08:13.889and yet they're on their third,fourth, fifth abortion and they'll probably10600:08:13.930 --> 00:08:16.529be back for a six. Thisis a false convert, this is not10700:08:16.850 --> 00:08:20.810someone who has submitted their life toGod. And so it is and I10800:08:20.889 --> 00:08:24.329think, very important to challenge that. Yeah, I don't think that.10900:08:24.569 --> 00:08:28.560I think it's easy for easier forus to sometimes say, well, they11000:08:28.560 --> 00:08:31.200said there a believer, yeah,and just accept that. But I don't11100:08:31.240 --> 00:08:35.080think that that is a loving thingto do. It's actually one of the11200:08:35.960 --> 00:08:39.240for me personally. I'm not testimony. One of the most loving things that11300:08:39.399 --> 00:08:43.309someone did to me, I'm abrother, was actually to confront me and11400:08:43.429 --> 00:08:46.070say, Hey, man, yourlife doesn't line up with what you're saying.11500:08:46.149 --> 00:08:50.070I was a false convert for aboutthree years, claiming to be a11600:08:50.149 --> 00:08:54.190Christian, yet still doing the thingsI've always done. Didn't change one bit,11700:08:56.100 --> 00:08:58.340you know, still doing drugs andlying and I'll fornicating all the things11800:08:58.379 --> 00:09:01.659that I did before. And mybrother did the most loving thing that he11900:09:01.700 --> 00:09:05.259could have done. He Con Frontof me. He did a very graciously12000:09:05.700 --> 00:09:07.100and I think there's a way thatwe can do it very graciously. I12100:09:07.220 --> 00:09:13.090think when we confront some hypocrisy insomeone's life, we need to do it12200:09:13.169 --> 00:09:16.490with scripture. I'm a scriptural basis, not a based on our opinion.12300:09:16.690 --> 00:09:20.409My opinion is, if you're here, you should know the Bible says that12400:09:20.649 --> 00:09:22.570no murderer has eternal life in himself. Yeah, you can't be a Christian.12500:09:22.610 --> 00:09:26.279Murder is impossible. So to murderyour child and claim to be a12600:09:26.279 --> 00:09:31.559Christian or two incompatible things. Right. So either you're you're not a true12700:09:31.559 --> 00:09:35.440Christian and your false convert, oryou are a true Christian and you're going12800:09:35.480 --> 00:09:39.190to turn away from murdering your child? That's right. And and and asking12900:09:39.350 --> 00:09:43.509lots of questions to help them cometo those conclusions after you've presented them with13000:09:43.590 --> 00:09:46.830the truth is, as we've saidin the past, a really good a13100:09:46.870 --> 00:09:50.190really good strategy for helping them toadmit, Hey, maybe I'm not a13200:09:50.350 --> 00:09:54.779believer. Yeah, Great Comfort doesthat in when people say I'm a good13300:09:54.860 --> 00:09:58.580person, I right. Just talkedwith the woman today, shared the Gospel13400:09:58.620 --> 00:10:01.779with the woman today who said shewas a good person. Nice. Well,13500:10:01.779 --> 00:10:03.980let me ask you some questions andI'll I'll answer them as well.13600:10:05.179 --> 00:10:07.730Have you ever told a lie?Have you ever stolen? Have you ever13700:10:07.850 --> 00:10:11.850fornicated? Have you ever taken theLord's name in vain? And by the13800:10:11.929 --> 00:10:15.210time I'm we finished with our listof questions, I said are you a13900:10:15.330 --> 00:10:18.529good person? And said, Iguess I'm really not. But she came14000:10:18.690 --> 00:10:24.440to that conclusion on her own andI think that that through targeted questions and14100:10:24.480 --> 00:10:28.399I think that we can do thesame. I'm challenging people when they say14200:10:28.840 --> 00:10:31.519I'm a Christian, rather than acceptingthat face value, because you will hear14300:10:31.559 --> 00:10:35.710it if you're on the sidewalk ofan abortion center. You will hear it14400:10:37.070 --> 00:10:39.350all the time, at least ifyou're in the south. Now again.14500:10:39.789 --> 00:10:45.509o. Our mentality has to beone of we're not just pointing these things14600:10:45.590 --> 00:10:48.549out, calling them unbelievers, tomake ourselves feel better, right, or14700:10:48.750 --> 00:10:52.179just to tear them down. Yes, because we can do this very graciously.14800:10:52.299 --> 00:10:56.860You can talk someone through and showthem what the Scripture says. Yeah,14900:10:56.100 --> 00:11:00.740and show them that they're they're actuallynot right with God, and you15000:11:00.779 --> 00:11:03.809can do it in such a waythere's very gracious, but forth right rather15100:11:03.889 --> 00:11:09.129than just you're not just blasting land, blasting them right with some certain trees15200:11:09.169 --> 00:11:11.450from the scripture. Yes, andI know for a fact that you do15300:11:11.730 --> 00:11:15.529that. You for sure do that, Daniel. I could use a little15400:11:15.529 --> 00:11:18.210work on it. I hammer themreally hard or I'm very great. You're15500:11:18.210 --> 00:11:22.000very gracious. You're very gracious.Okay. So the second one. Women15600:11:22.159 --> 00:11:24.919claim that it and this is whatyou started alluding to earlier on. Women15700:11:24.960 --> 00:11:28.279claim that it is okay to abortsince God is a forgiving God. We15800:11:28.399 --> 00:11:33.870have dealt with that in absolute podcast, but I've heard over and over again.15900:11:33.870 --> 00:11:37.389I know it's wrong, but I'mgoing to do this because I know16000:11:37.750 --> 00:11:41.309God will forgive me. Yeah,yeah, and it's again. I think16100:11:41.309 --> 00:11:46.309you'd said it well. He saidyou're not really asking God for forgiveness.16200:11:46.429 --> 00:11:50.700You're trying to ask God for permissionto kill your child. God does not16300:11:50.820 --> 00:11:54.580grant us permission to disobey him.Yeah, yeah, it's not really about16400:11:54.580 --> 00:11:58.139forgiveness. Is a mentality and Pauladdresses it when he talks about those who16500:11:58.259 --> 00:12:03.529take the mercy of God for granted. They take the grace of God as16600:12:03.610 --> 00:12:07.450a license for sin. Right,and it proves that they don't know the16700:12:07.570 --> 00:12:11.330Lord, they have not had atrue encounter with this holy, Holy,16800:12:11.490 --> 00:12:16.200Holy God. And that's in Romanssix, one did one through fourteen,16900:12:16.440 --> 00:12:18.919but a where he says, whatshall we say then? Are We to17000:12:18.000 --> 00:12:22.080continue in sin? That grace mayabound, may by no means how can17100:12:22.159 --> 00:12:24.759we who died to sin still livein it? And that's a great verse17200:12:24.879 --> 00:12:28.799to to mention to mom who saysI'm going to go in because I know17300:12:28.919 --> 00:12:33.990that God, God will forgive me. Yeah, in those situations too,17400:12:33.149 --> 00:12:37.029it's good, I think, andI think it's very biblical to use analogies17500:12:37.990 --> 00:12:41.909to say well, if I toldyou that, you know your way for17600:12:43.509 --> 00:12:46.179the weekend and I'm going to breakin your house and steal all your stuff.17700:12:46.419 --> 00:12:50.059Yeah, but you're going to forgiveme because you're a forgiving person.17800:12:50.179 --> 00:12:52.620Would you be okay with that?Right? What I be a person that17900:12:52.700 --> 00:12:56.139would receive your forgiveness? Yeah,of course not. Right. I'm planning18000:12:56.980 --> 00:13:01.129in my own wicked heart to doevil and then, because you're nice,18100:13:01.289 --> 00:13:03.809you're going to forgive me. Right. How's that going to work out for18200:13:03.929 --> 00:13:05.809me? Not too good. Right, and suffer consequence. Right, and18300:13:05.889 --> 00:13:09.490stories are great, and that thatdoes often, I think, change people's18400:13:09.690 --> 00:13:13.919ability to see what Paul is talkingabout in that verse and the flaw in18500:13:15.000 --> 00:13:18.440their own argument. So the thirdone is that women claim that all sin18600:13:18.879 --> 00:13:24.080is the same. Yeah, soabortion is not so terrible, and I'll18700:13:24.159 --> 00:13:26.990hear the the various permutations of that, but one is, have you ever18800:13:28.070 --> 00:13:31.350told a lie? Well, I'mabout to go, go have an abortion,18900:13:31.549 --> 00:13:33.950but you're a liar. You've toldlies. Yeah, and so we19000:13:35.149 --> 00:13:39.789need to address that, because notall sin is the same. All Sin19100:13:39.950 --> 00:13:43.379Separates US right from the glory ofGod, and they're they're correct in that.19200:13:43.100 --> 00:13:50.100But there are magnitudes of sin andthere are differing punishments for sin,19300:13:50.580 --> 00:13:54.259and I know you're turning to somethingwhile you're looking there, the one I'm19400:13:54.259 --> 00:13:58.929actually turned into the scripture that youhave there. Okay, these are these19500:13:58.970 --> 00:14:01.929are this is a great scripture,I think, addressing that and when I've19600:14:01.970 --> 00:14:05.049read that to women who say allsin is the same, and I'll say,19700:14:05.090 --> 00:14:09.360well, actually, Jesus himself woulddisagree with you. Yeah, and19800:14:09.679 --> 00:14:13.360we can prove that because scripture supportsthat. Yeah, yeah, and here19900:14:13.519 --> 00:14:18.639Jesus answered. This is in theJohn Nineteen, verse eleven. Yeah,20000:14:18.759 --> 00:14:22.120this is Jesus before pilot, rightbefore he's about to be crucified. Jesus20100:14:22.159 --> 00:14:26.190answered sit and said You could haveno power at all against me unless it20200:14:26.230 --> 00:14:30.590had been given you from above.Therefore, the one who delivered me to20300:14:30.710 --> 00:14:35.350you. As the Greater Sin Greater. So the word great or there implies20400:14:35.669 --> 00:14:39.059that there's Lesser Sin. Now therecan be some confusion here for people.20500:14:39.820 --> 00:14:43.940You know, one of the thingswe deal with on a regular basis is20600:14:43.059 --> 00:14:48.500just biblically illiterate people, right,people who've taken certain, I don't know,20700:14:48.740 --> 00:14:54.009passages out of context or messages fromthe pulpit and taking them to mean20800:14:54.090 --> 00:14:58.289something that that God never intended.So the idea that all sin is the20900:14:58.330 --> 00:15:01.610same is not a biblical concept rightat all. You can get all the21000:15:01.730 --> 00:15:07.009time. This is also widespread.Yeah, and so you did with Biblical21100:15:07.090 --> 00:15:11.679illiteracy and bringing the Bible into theequation and showing people actually, here's what21200:15:11.799 --> 00:15:18.000the Scripture says. You're confronting Biblicalilliteracy and you're bringing the truth of God's21300:15:18.000 --> 00:15:22.549word into the equation. But also, again, I think helping with analogies21400:15:22.190 --> 00:15:26.190is pretty helpful. You know,if you stand before an earthly judge and21500:15:26.350 --> 00:15:31.870you stole a Pepsi at the store, are your consequences going to be the21600:15:31.950 --> 00:15:35.980same? Is it the same asif you murdered your next door neighbor?21700:15:35.460 --> 00:15:39.299Of course not. Those two thingsare very different. We have consequences that21800:15:39.419 --> 00:15:46.460are very different for these different kindsof sins. But of course all sin21900:15:46.659 --> 00:15:50.049does separate us from God. AllSin, whether you tell one little quote22000:15:50.049 --> 00:15:54.129white lie or where do you killsomeone, you are still separated from a22100:15:54.289 --> 00:15:58.169holy God. So that is atruth. All Sin separates us, and22200:15:58.210 --> 00:16:02.409you said it very well. AllSin separates us from God, but not22300:16:02.570 --> 00:16:06.159all sin is the same. That'sright, that's right. And what and22400:16:06.639 --> 00:16:10.919you know sometimes this can almost feelacademic, like, okay, so big22500:16:11.000 --> 00:16:14.960deal, you've really made a niceorganized chart of all the rationalizations. But22600:16:15.039 --> 00:16:18.029there's a reason why they're so importantto know. Because if a woman is22700:16:18.190 --> 00:16:25.629claiming that all sin is the same, and all of us probably every day22800:16:25.750 --> 00:16:29.350there is like what I would calla little sin in our life. We've22900:16:29.389 --> 00:16:33.500told the white lie. We've saidyes, dinner taste delicious honey, when23000:16:33.659 --> 00:16:37.700honestly it probably maybe didn't. We'veall done that, but we all are23100:16:37.899 --> 00:16:41.259not killing our babies. Yeah,and there is a difference and it's very23200:16:41.379 --> 00:16:48.809important that they recognize that. Stumblingis not the same as just a free23300:16:48.929 --> 00:16:52.730fall jump off of a cliff ofsin. Yeah, and that's what abortionous.23400:16:52.809 --> 00:16:56.889Yeah, and the reality is,no one actually believes that all sin23500:16:57.009 --> 00:17:02.440is the same. No one actuallybelieves that in their everyday life. Right,23600:17:03.200 --> 00:17:07.799we all know that there there aresins that are more egregious than others.23700:17:07.839 --> 00:17:11.640Right. There are things that peopledo where you wonder how in the23800:17:11.000 --> 00:17:15.950world could they ever do something soevil? Right, and then there are23900:17:17.029 --> 00:17:19.829things that that people do that arestill evil, and yet they're pretty common24000:17:19.869 --> 00:17:23.829evils. Like still in a Pepsifrom the grocery store or whatever it might24100:17:23.869 --> 00:17:27.349be. Those things are sin andthey still separate people from God. People24200:17:27.430 --> 00:17:32.420that do that are still the eaves. However, we all would recognize there24300:17:32.460 --> 00:17:37.660are different levels of sin. Helpinga mom to understand that is can be24400:17:37.819 --> 00:17:40.859helpful in giving analogies and, ofcourse, given what the scripture says,24500:17:40.900 --> 00:17:45.210totally agree. So this one isa fun one. Okay, this is24600:17:45.369 --> 00:17:52.490the fourth one. Women claim thatGod gave us free will to choose abortion.24700:17:52.769 --> 00:17:55.930Okay, it's accurate. He did. It is. Yeah, I24800:17:56.049 --> 00:18:00.240mean so we do have the freedomof the will right do evil and of24900:18:00.400 --> 00:18:03.880course, as human beings, wedo pretty good at doing evil, don't25000:18:03.880 --> 00:18:07.480we? Yes, we do prettygood. It take us free will,25100:18:07.680 --> 00:18:11.680YEP, and giving it to tosin. And one of the things that25200:18:11.720 --> 00:18:15.910I will say, and I've hadconversations with many young men that come over25300:18:15.230 --> 00:18:18.390on the sidewalk and they're there withtheir girlfriend, of their wife or an25400:18:18.430 --> 00:18:22.190abortion, and they say some ofthe very similar didn't God give us free25500:18:22.230 --> 00:18:26.460will right? And so my responsetypically is this, just because God gave25600:18:26.539 --> 00:18:30.140you free will to do something doesnot mean that it's okay for you to25700:18:30.220 --> 00:18:33.099do what you want to with thatwill. As a matter of fact,25800:18:33.099 --> 00:18:36.140when you stand before him, it'swhat you've done with the free will that25900:18:36.180 --> 00:18:40.619he's given you that you will beheld accountable for. Exactly just because God26000:18:40.740 --> 00:18:44.970allows you to do something doesn't meanhe's okay with what you've done, and26100:18:45.930 --> 00:18:49.130it can help bring some truth intothe equation there and help these folks to26200:18:49.170 --> 00:18:53.970think this through. It's really ridiculousstatement. Just because God doesn't strike you26300:18:55.009 --> 00:18:56.640dead before you do something, itmeans he's a Kay with what you're doing.26400:18:56.680 --> 00:19:00.880Right, right. So there's avery different thing between between free will26500:19:02.720 --> 00:19:06.839and his desire and permission. Yeah, he well, I guess he does26600:19:06.960 --> 00:19:10.589permit you, but his desire isclearly not in one of the best verses26700:19:10.750 --> 00:19:12.910for that, I think, isDeuteronomy, three thousand nineteen to twenty.26800:19:12.990 --> 00:19:18.109Yeah, maybe. Well, manyof you guys probably know this scripture,26900:19:18.230 --> 00:19:21.390but I call heaven and earth towitness against you that I've set before you27000:19:21.549 --> 00:19:25.819life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore, choose life that you and27100:19:25.900 --> 00:19:29.819your offspring may live, loving theLord, your God, obeying his voice,27200:19:30.420 --> 00:19:34.259holding fast to him, for heis your life and length of days,27300:19:34.539 --> 00:19:37.539that you may dwell in the landand that the Lord, that the27400:19:37.609 --> 00:19:41.450Lord swore to your father's, toAbraham, Isaac and to Jacob to give27500:19:41.490 --> 00:19:45.130them. So here's this promise ofGod that before you is the choice of27600:19:45.329 --> 00:19:48.849life, death, blessing and cursing. He gives you that choice. She's27700:19:48.890 --> 00:19:52.049live. Yes, he said itbefore. Humanity choose life, death,27800:19:52.130 --> 00:19:56.079blessing and cursing, you know.And we deal with the issue of choice27900:19:56.160 --> 00:19:59.720and people choosing to do what theywant to do. Of course, we28000:19:59.799 --> 00:20:03.039mentioned before. We deal with thepro aborts that talk about choice right,28100:20:03.160 --> 00:20:06.880and many of them will say awoman has the right to choose abortion,28200:20:07.269 --> 00:20:11.829doesn't she? And I will sayyes, she does. She can choose28300:20:11.869 --> 00:20:14.509to go right in that abortion.Could it can kill her child? Yeah.28400:20:14.589 --> 00:20:18.589However, that choice has consequences.Listen, if abortion was illegal,28500:20:19.230 --> 00:20:23.819people can still choose to kill theirchildren. Sure, right now it's illegal28600:20:23.859 --> 00:20:26.779to kill three year olds. Yeah, can a can a mother of a28700:20:26.859 --> 00:20:30.740three year old choose to kill herchild? She can, actually, she28800:20:30.900 --> 00:20:34.099can, and that has happened.That doesn't make it right. Right.28900:20:34.259 --> 00:20:37.609So the legality of it doesn't makeit right. The the the fact that29000:20:37.730 --> 00:20:41.569God gives people the ability to choosethings doesn't make it right, that's a29100:20:41.650 --> 00:20:47.009ridiculous notion. Right, ridiculous,but we hear it all the time,29200:20:47.089 --> 00:20:48.769all the time, all the time. Yeah, okay, now, in29300:20:49.279 --> 00:20:52.200none of these is you're responding toa mom or to a dad going into29400:20:52.200 --> 00:20:56.240an abortion center, do you needto voice how ridiculous these things are to29500:20:56.359 --> 00:21:00.519them? You know, they hearwhat they're saying. Not Helpful, but29600:21:00.079 --> 00:21:06.509it is good. It is goodto think through some responses not right them29700:21:06.549 --> 00:21:08.710off immediately. It's easy to dobecause you hear these things so often.29800:21:08.990 --> 00:21:12.390It's like you can probably repeat what'sthe next thing they're going to say because29900:21:12.390 --> 00:21:15.150you hear him so often. Yeah, but again, you know our attitude.30000:21:17.109 --> 00:21:21.420Listening to what they're saying is helpfuland then answering with a scriptural answer,30100:21:21.500 --> 00:21:25.819answering with a common sense answer ishelpful. So taking the attitude that30200:21:25.859 --> 00:21:29.059I'm taken to say that they're justcompletely ridiculous. Well, that's true,30300:21:29.660 --> 00:21:33.210but that's just convey that. That'sjust between us. Right. Yeah,30400:21:33.410 --> 00:21:37.210yeah, definitely, I think it. It's it's important to acknowledge the truth30500:21:37.289 --> 00:21:41.130of what they've said. God didgive us free will. I will say30600:21:41.130 --> 00:21:44.009that all the time. You're correct. He did give us free will.30700:21:44.369 --> 00:21:48.799But and then you counter with thescriptural truth about what he wants us to30800:21:48.920 --> 00:21:52.279do with that free will. Becauseshe's clear, and he's very clear in30900:21:52.319 --> 00:21:56.200the first choose life. Yeah,you see, he sets before it's life31000:21:56.240 --> 00:21:59.759and death. Therefore, choose life, do do the right thing, and31100:22:00.039 --> 00:22:03.190is basically what exactly saying. Thisone is one of my favorites. Not31200:22:04.430 --> 00:22:11.390Women claim that Jesus is their Lord, since they asked him into their hearts.31300:22:11.430 --> 00:22:15.150Yeah, so, I often shareRomans ten nine. Did today.31400:22:15.299 --> 00:22:21.019I always do. It's one ofmy favorite verses in in introducing that idea31500:22:21.700 --> 00:22:25.779in the Gospel message that if youproclaim with your mouth that Jesus is Lord31600:22:25.819 --> 00:22:27.420and believe in your heart that Godraised him from the dead, then you31700:22:27.500 --> 00:22:33.329will be saved. And I almostalways get the response, Oh, I31800:22:33.450 --> 00:22:37.450did that. Yeah, they're stillabortion minded. How I did that?31900:22:37.650 --> 00:22:40.049Yeah, I did that, Idid that one. So kick that box32000:22:40.170 --> 00:22:42.730right. Right. So, soI spend so much time focusing on on32100:22:44.359 --> 00:22:49.160that Jesus is Lord. Yeah,statement. Unfortunately, this is a manifestation32200:22:49.400 --> 00:22:55.960of some of the weak Gospel presentationsthat happen in churches across America. The32300:22:56.079 --> 00:23:00.029easy believi is mm and basically thesetup is, you know, Here's The32400:23:00.150 --> 00:23:04.029Gospel, here's the problem of sinand here's the box you need to check32500:23:04.069 --> 00:23:07.390to take care of that problem.Right, just pray after me, Jesus32600:23:07.549 --> 00:23:10.630is Lord, and check you're safeto check the box and ready to go32700:23:10.910 --> 00:23:15.539right. And the message of Repentance, renewal of the heart, regeneration,32800:23:17.460 --> 00:23:21.420the message of the holiness of God, a lot of that's been neglected.32900:23:21.700 --> 00:23:25.619Yeah, and so again there's thismentality that's been embraced by people that you33000:23:25.700 --> 00:23:30.609know, God's almost God was createdfor you to fix your problems, rather33100:23:30.650 --> 00:23:33.410than you were created for him.And The holiness of God is so often33200:23:33.490 --> 00:23:41.049neglected. In showing this God whothey'll stand before as holy really helps people33300:23:41.089 --> 00:23:42.799understand it's not just check in abox, but I need to surrender my33400:23:42.960 --> 00:23:45.640life to him. And of coursewe life is surrendered to him. You're33500:23:45.640 --> 00:23:49.119not going to give yourself the thingslike for Nication, an abortion right and33600:23:49.400 --> 00:23:53.599sin right. He's not only holybut just, and that when you start33700:23:53.720 --> 00:23:57.509introducing the idea of justice. That'sanother thing that is really neglected, in33800:23:57.829 --> 00:24:03.150my experience, at least in whatI'm hearing. Maybe it is introduced in33900:24:03.190 --> 00:24:06.950the churches, but I'm sure nothearing it reflected and in what the women34000:24:06.990 --> 00:24:12.019are saying, because even if Godwere just God, then obviously God would34100:24:12.299 --> 00:24:18.660demand that they not go in andkill this innocent child who has caused committed34200:24:18.740 --> 00:24:25.809no crime. Yeah, and thatis not justice. So I often introduce34300:24:25.930 --> 00:24:27.890luke six. Well, why doyou call me Lord, Lord and not34400:24:29.009 --> 00:24:30.569do what I tell you? Yeah, and I say Jesus himself tells you.34500:24:30.609 --> 00:24:33.410If you're going to call them Lord, you're supposed to obey him.34600:24:33.410 --> 00:24:37.759Yeah, and I think breaking downthat word Lord is important. Yeah,34700:24:38.160 --> 00:24:41.200what does that word mean? Ithink that Jesus. If you claim that34800:24:41.240 --> 00:24:45.960Jesus is your Lord, what doesthat mean? Yes, Lord, just34900:24:45.160 --> 00:24:52.640a title, or does it implythat you're actually in subjection to what he35000:24:52.680 --> 00:24:56.349says? Because that's what it means. It's actually can be translated master.35100:24:56.349 --> 00:25:00.069Yeah, so if he's in charge, basically what it means he's in charge.35200:25:00.109 --> 00:25:03.309If Jesus is in charge, ishe okay with you killing your child35300:25:03.349 --> 00:25:07.180that he created? And of coursenot. And that's a great way to35400:25:07.259 --> 00:25:10.420ask it. And I think oneof the big surprises for me when I35500:25:10.460 --> 00:25:15.539started doing this work and sharing theGospel on a regular basis was people would35600:25:15.539 --> 00:25:18.339I would say, what does thatmean when Jesus is Lord, and so35700:25:18.539 --> 00:25:22.170many people could not answer that.They didn't know what they'd said it.35800:25:22.210 --> 00:25:26.730Yeah, and and it was abig kind of revelation to them that they35900:25:26.809 --> 00:25:32.009really had said it without knowing whatthat entailed, which is why they're showing36000:25:32.049 --> 00:25:34.799up in an abortion center and callingJesus Lord. Yeah, well, it's36100:25:34.920 --> 00:25:41.279just another now kind of a commontitle that people use for Jesus, just36200:25:41.400 --> 00:25:44.359like Jesus Christ. A lot ofpeople can't tell you who are raising church.36300:25:44.480 --> 00:25:47.319What does Christ even mean? It'slike is that Jesus is last name.36400:25:47.920 --> 00:25:51.910Know, it implies something. He'sannointing when he's the Messiah, the36500:25:52.029 --> 00:25:55.869Lord Jesus. Well, Lord justjust the title, just something you attack36600:25:55.950 --> 00:25:59.950on to the front of Jesus exactly, Mr Jesus. But it has biblically36700:26:00.549 --> 00:26:03.150implies a lot more than just atitle before the name of Jesus. Right,36800:26:03.420 --> 00:26:07.660it's who he is. If you'rea Christian in your life, he's36900:26:07.660 --> 00:26:11.180your master. He gets to saywhat goes. That's right. That's right.37000:26:11.660 --> 00:26:14.259So, and I think we actuallyeven did a podcast where we start37100:26:14.259 --> 00:26:17.980would have presented that a little bit, but but if not, this is37200:26:18.019 --> 00:26:22.250a good summer. You have that. So now those are all unique concerns37300:26:22.529 --> 00:26:26.089and though there's, I'm sure,many, many more, but those were37400:26:26.210 --> 00:26:27.690the top five that kind of cameto me as I as I was working37500:26:27.809 --> 00:26:30.650on this and thinking through it.So now what do we do with that?37600:26:30.890 --> 00:26:36.839How Do we present the Gospel withthose unique concerns in mind, because37700:26:36.960 --> 00:26:41.839we do believe that that the wayyou present the Gospel is sometimes different depending37800:26:41.000 --> 00:26:45.759on your audience. You're presented too, in the unique issues that arise from37900:26:45.799 --> 00:26:49.549the unique audience that you're speaking with. So we already mentioned the first one.38000:26:49.910 --> 00:26:55.190Be Be careful about the message offorgiveness. Yeah, if the first38100:26:55.230 --> 00:26:59.950thing you call out, and Ihave heard this from new inexperience counselors,38200:27:00.589 --> 00:27:03.740Jesus loves you, he'll forgive youas they're on their way in to kill38300:27:03.779 --> 00:27:07.500their baby. Is Their problem withthat, Daniel? There's a big problem38400:27:07.500 --> 00:27:11.259with that. Yeah, because listen, the fact is, will he forgive38500:27:11.339 --> 00:27:15.809you? Not necessarily, he can. He's willing to if you repent.38600:27:17.690 --> 00:27:22.369But you're offering the message of forgivenessat a at a bad time, because38700:27:22.369 --> 00:27:29.490it's grasp on to as a justificationfor doing something so bad like killing your38800:27:29.529 --> 00:27:33.920innocent child. And we shouldn't.You know, we got to share God's38900:27:33.960 --> 00:27:37.119Truth and God's word, but themessage of God will forgive you is not39000:27:37.359 --> 00:27:44.589necessarily a biblical truth from that standpoint. It's God will forgive you if you39100:27:44.750 --> 00:27:48.710repent. Yeah, and if you'regiven justification to a mom to kill her39200:27:48.750 --> 00:27:51.390child, we certainly don't want tohave any part of that. So that's39300:27:51.430 --> 00:27:55.910why we need to be careful ofoffering the message of forgiveness in that way.39400:27:56.150 --> 00:28:00.180And one of my favorite verses ishe brews twenty six. If you39500:28:00.299 --> 00:28:03.019willfully continue and sin, there remainsno repentance for sin, but a fiery39600:28:03.099 --> 00:28:07.579expectation of judgment. Yeah, andI don't even need to tell them what39700:28:07.700 --> 00:28:10.500that means. I just say thatverse and say, can you is this39800:28:10.660 --> 00:28:12.609continuing and sin? You know thetruth. You're walking in there knowing the39900:28:12.769 --> 00:28:18.890truth. What does that first tellyou? I think it's a huge warning40000:28:18.970 --> 00:28:25.369and absolutely, and they usually agree. Yeah, so be fourth right about40100:28:25.450 --> 00:28:29.799calling sin what it is. Ithink is the is the second takeaway.40200:28:30.039 --> 00:28:33.480Yeah, and some of the unitunique concerns. A lot of us shy40300:28:33.640 --> 00:28:40.440away from calling sin sin all thetime, but especially in front of an40400:28:40.440 --> 00:28:41.910abortion center, because you don't wantto make them mad at you. Yeah,40500:28:41.990 --> 00:28:47.589I think that's when I when I'mcareful about the words that I'm using.40600:28:47.789 --> 00:28:48.990And you know, you don't wantto tick them off so that you40700:28:49.190 --> 00:28:52.869push them in right to the abortioncenter, but you can sugarcoat it so40800:28:52.910 --> 00:28:59.740much that there's no awareness that whatthey're doing is truly heinous, ruly wrong.40900:29:00.299 --> 00:29:03.700Yeah, I mean one of thethings we're talking about sin and calling41000:29:03.819 --> 00:29:07.779sin sin. There are those whoshy away from calling abortion murder. Right,41100:29:07.940 --> 00:29:11.049I did, I did for long. Yeah, and I understand that.41200:29:11.170 --> 00:29:14.529Yeah, and I think there canthat certainly needs to be a consideration.41300:29:14.849 --> 00:29:18.250I don't think it's helpful for usto put that out, that truth41400:29:18.289 --> 00:29:21.410out there like an accusation. Right, you know you're a murderer. Yes,41500:29:21.569 --> 00:29:25.039as they're walking into an abortion center, because I have seen it myself.41600:29:25.079 --> 00:29:29.279Yeah, I've seen their feet movefaster right into that abortion sen yeah,41700:29:29.640 --> 00:29:33.200I actually think, and we did, we talked about in a couple41800:29:33.279 --> 00:29:37.480episodes ago about words and words havemeaning. And Yeah, I think being41900:29:37.559 --> 00:29:41.470careful with our words and saying andthis is what I say often. Don't42000:29:41.470 --> 00:29:45.869go in there and take the innocentlife of your baby, right, because42100:29:45.910 --> 00:29:51.589it's almost like abortion is murder hasbecome almost like a mantra or something like42200:29:51.710 --> 00:29:55.259that, to where it doesn't reallycarry the weight that we think it might.42300:29:55.299 --> 00:29:57.339Yeah, but if you're using wordsor you're trying to describe to this42400:29:57.460 --> 00:30:00.980mother, don't go in there andtake the innocent life of your baby.42500:30:00.019 --> 00:30:04.940We're bringing things to her mind.Hopefully that will help her to understand the42600:30:04.980 --> 00:30:10.769weight of what she's really doing.Then just become some cliche statement. Abortion42700:30:10.930 --> 00:30:14.289is murder. Right. So they'regentler ways to call it sin, but42800:30:14.450 --> 00:30:18.930college sin down. Don't don't beafraid to point out that this is wrong.42900:30:18.930 --> 00:30:22.160Yeah, we certainly don't need toconvey to this mother don't go in43000:30:22.200 --> 00:30:23.839there and make a terrible mistake.It's not a terrible ye stake, it's43100:30:25.079 --> 00:30:27.160sin. It seems its God right. I think that's why we need to43200:30:27.240 --> 00:30:32.079mention God as we're talking to him, like we say often, is this43300:30:32.200 --> 00:30:33.680something that God would ever have youto do? Would God want you to43400:30:33.759 --> 00:30:37.950take the innocent life of your child? and honestly, that can be a43500:30:37.990 --> 00:30:40.910showstopper. But that happened to metoday, which is why I thought that43600:30:40.990 --> 00:30:44.390up. I still think it's anabsolutely critical, important thing to say.43700:30:44.430 --> 00:30:47.430So on one hand we're saying becareful, but on the other hand,43800:30:47.710 --> 00:30:49.859don't be so careful that God isnot brought into the equation. He must43900:30:49.859 --> 00:30:53.900be brought into the ACCAO, theequation. A woman rolled down her window44000:30:53.980 --> 00:30:57.259today. I said, we havehope and help for you. My Name44100:30:57.339 --> 00:31:00.859and numbers on the back of thisinformation. Would you take this? And44200:31:00.940 --> 00:31:03.930she's smiling and and and said sure. I said you're on your way to44300:31:03.970 --> 00:31:07.490the Women Center. She was,and then I said what would God have44400:31:07.609 --> 00:31:10.890you do after saying that we hadhope and help, and she rolled the44500:31:10.890 --> 00:31:14.730window up and drop away and Yep, into the abortion center. Maybe I44600:31:14.769 --> 00:31:18.130should have done something different, butit is usually what I introduced very,44700:31:18.210 --> 00:31:22.279very quickly and and hopefully you knowthat that percolates in their heart while they're44800:31:22.279 --> 00:31:26.279sitting in there. Yeah, sotiming is important. Yeah, it is.44900:31:26.480 --> 00:31:30.519We don't always know the exact righttiming, but listen, if we45000:31:30.559 --> 00:31:33.190knew, if we knew the Dfrom the beginning, I think are counseling45100:31:33.230 --> 00:31:37.630sessions would be far more effective.But we don't, but we don't.45200:31:37.670 --> 00:31:38.670So we do our best. Sowe do the best we can with the45300:31:38.750 --> 00:31:44.150information that we have and we needto be truthful and do things scripturally right.45400:31:44.309 --> 00:31:47.539So again, mentioning God, orwhether that made her roll the window45500:31:47.539 --> 00:31:51.740up faster or who knows. Whoknows what the next thing you could have45600:31:51.779 --> 00:31:53.700said could have been something that aboutresources and she rolled her window up.45700:31:53.740 --> 00:31:57.099Yeah, but but I have hadthe opposite response where I've said what would45800:31:57.099 --> 00:32:00.690God have you do when they cry, and then I'm able to speak more45900:32:00.849 --> 00:32:05.369truth than they go on the RV. So I I bet any way about46000:32:05.369 --> 00:32:08.930it, whether they whether that statementsends them running or not. That statement,46100:32:09.089 --> 00:32:13.250I think, is an important statementthat needs to be set at some46200:32:13.490 --> 00:32:15.039point early on. Yeah, well, would God have you do, or46300:32:15.119 --> 00:32:20.119something along those lines, introducing God. We you had already touched on this46400:32:20.279 --> 00:32:23.440one a little bit. To takethe time to explain what real repentance means.46500:32:23.480 --> 00:32:28.720Yeah, because I don't think thatit's right right now. It's not,46600:32:29.039 --> 00:32:32.430and I think it is important.Again, like we talked about before,46700:32:32.470 --> 00:32:37.630words do matter and using words,biblical words like repentance, can be46800:32:37.750 --> 00:32:43.670helpful. It's a biblical word.But then explaining that word is helpful as46900:32:43.710 --> 00:32:45.420well. Yeah, so when youhave a one on one you know a47000:32:45.460 --> 00:32:49.700lot of what we're talking about.We're not talking about calling out across the47100:32:49.779 --> 00:32:52.539parking lot at the abortion centers cases. The talking about one on one interactions47200:32:52.900 --> 00:32:58.140with most of these cases, andso you have time to explain your words.47300:32:58.539 --> 00:33:00.289You have time to explain. Andso when I talk about repentance,47400:33:00.410 --> 00:33:05.930you God calls you to repent,I will always, almost always at least,47500:33:06.289 --> 00:33:08.769follow that up with that means toturn away from sin, that means47600:33:08.890 --> 00:33:13.559to stop doing the things you knoware offensive to the Lord. It's more47700:33:13.720 --> 00:33:16.559give deminish sorry, because that's whatthey'll say when I'll say what is repentance47800:33:16.640 --> 00:33:20.359mean? That's what I hear sooften. It means you say you're sorry.47900:33:20.359 --> 00:33:22.640Yeah, it's much more. Itis much more that you're sorry.48000:33:22.640 --> 00:33:24.880Yeah, I mean one of thethings, if I have the time to48100:33:24.960 --> 00:33:30.829lay out, it's actually a turningof your heart, your mind and your48200:33:30.910 --> 00:33:34.349feet away from those things that areoffensive to the Lord, the things that48300:33:34.430 --> 00:33:36.829he would never have you to do. Yeah, I like that heart,48400:33:36.869 --> 00:33:39.309mind and your feet. Yes,that's actually a really good statement and that's48500:33:39.349 --> 00:33:45.380actually the biblical picture of repentance isa one hundred and eighty degree turn.48600:33:45.460 --> 00:33:49.859You're walking that direction. To repentis to walk in completely the opposite direction.48700:33:49.900 --> 00:33:55.009Yeah, that's good. Ask themwhere they are going, heaven or48800:33:55.089 --> 00:34:00.970hell, to discern workspaced theology.Yeah, so, and that's very important.48900:34:01.369 --> 00:34:06.690It's important in sharing it, theGospel, with anyone, but I49000:34:06.769 --> 00:34:10.679also think it's especially important with apost abortive women, which actually most of49100:34:10.679 --> 00:34:15.079the women, even the ones whochoose life that time, have had a49200:34:15.159 --> 00:34:20.079prior abortion. And if their understandingof God and a relationship with God is49300:34:20.159 --> 00:34:24.469based on works, they're feeling condemnation. Well, absolutely so. The single49400:34:24.590 --> 00:34:28.909question that I think maybe you haveanother one, but for me the one49500:34:28.949 --> 00:34:34.389question that really kind of immediately letsme know do they believe they can work49600:34:34.429 --> 00:34:37.150their way to heaven or not,is to say where you going, heaven49700:34:37.190 --> 00:34:39.460or hell, and then why?Yeah, and how they answer that question.49800:34:39.500 --> 00:34:43.619And that's an easy way to thenhave entrey and to sharing the rest49900:34:43.659 --> 00:34:46.260of the Gospel. Yeah, absolutely, laying out that your good works cannot50000:34:46.300 --> 00:34:50.739save you. Right, it onlythe good work that Jesus Christ did in50100:34:50.860 --> 00:34:53.809his death, Barren resurrection right canrescue and Dean save you. Yeah,50200:34:54.730 --> 00:34:59.610because we do have a lot ofpeople, even with Thea you believe is50300:34:59.690 --> 00:35:04.010m salvation, people that say theycheck the box. If you really get50400:35:04.130 --> 00:35:07.920down into they're thinking about, quote, religious things, they still have a50500:35:08.079 --> 00:35:12.559works based mentality. I mean,if you think about it, checking that50600:35:12.800 --> 00:35:15.880religious box. I did that.I said that prayer is kind of like50700:35:16.079 --> 00:35:21.429it. It's really, are youreally trusting in Christ? That's the question.50800:35:21.469 --> 00:35:23.989Are you trusting in him? Areyou clinging to him for salvation?50900:35:24.190 --> 00:35:29.030It's not works based, it's reallyheart based, right, if your heart51000:35:29.150 --> 00:35:31.909really trusting in Christ. Yeah,and for many of these folks that would51100:35:31.909 --> 00:35:37.900use these excuses to kill their childand justify it, obviously their hearts are51200:35:37.980 --> 00:35:40.099not it's given to the Lord.That's right, that's right, and not51300:35:40.420 --> 00:35:45.500their faith. They'll say I havefaith and and I have faith that Soanso51400:35:45.619 --> 00:35:50.530Andso and so. But if youask them, well, do you have51500:35:50.730 --> 00:35:52.809faith only when things are going theway you want them to go, or51600:35:52.889 --> 00:35:57.050do you have faith when God istelling you to do something that's hard?51700:35:57.090 --> 00:35:59.889Yeah, and if you don't havethe faith to do what God is telling51800:35:59.889 --> 00:36:05.039you to do when something's hard,then I would challenge whether you have a51900:36:05.199 --> 00:36:07.880saving faith. Yeah, absolutely.Yeah, not too long ago, a52000:36:07.920 --> 00:36:13.360couple of weeks ago actually, Iwas talking to a young man who was52100:36:13.440 --> 00:36:17.630given excuses about his girlfriend having theabortion he was. He said he trusted52200:36:17.710 --> 00:36:21.710the Lord, he said God wasfaithful and all these other things, and52300:36:21.750 --> 00:36:24.190I said really, with a rubbermeets the road, which is right here,52400:36:24.349 --> 00:36:29.389right now, you're not trust inGod, right, you're telling me,52500:36:29.550 --> 00:36:32.900because of coronavirus, because of yourfinancial situation, because of this,52600:36:34.099 --> 00:36:37.460because of that, though, Godis trustworthy in his character is impeccable,52700:36:37.739 --> 00:36:40.099and you confess that. Yet somehow, right now, his character is up52800:36:40.139 --> 00:36:44.940for question, because of the coronavirus, because of your financial situation, because52900:36:44.980 --> 00:36:49.050of this, because of that,somehow God becomes not faithful anymore. Right,53000:36:49.210 --> 00:36:52.489can't trust him now. Trust himto tough to see, even though53100:36:52.530 --> 00:36:54.050he holds the future in his handand he's been faithful in the past.53200:36:54.130 --> 00:36:57.769You're telling me he won't be faithfulin the future. And so I really53300:36:57.769 --> 00:37:00.409pressed him on the issue of trustingthe Lord and brought him to a point53400:37:00.440 --> 00:37:05.159where he saw and he agreed withme. Yeah, I'm not really trusting53500:37:05.239 --> 00:37:07.159God, Emma. Yeah, now, unfortunately, he didn't go in there53600:37:07.159 --> 00:37:10.679and get his girlfriend out, buthe certainly didn't get away with the idea53700:37:10.880 --> 00:37:15.150that somehow he's trust in God whenhe's really not. I gave him the53800:37:15.190 --> 00:37:19.710truth and I did it very forthrightly, but very graciously. He didn't stomp53900:37:19.789 --> 00:37:23.469off mad. We had a good, cordial conversation, conversation I yeah,54000:37:23.510 --> 00:37:27.829I heard a lot of it andit was and I'm sure seats were planted54100:37:27.869 --> 00:37:30.059and so maybe this baby wasn't safe, but maybe the next one will be.54200:37:30.219 --> 00:37:36.820Maybe maybe he will be reconsidering.Yeah, and again, I certainly54300:37:36.860 --> 00:37:40.420didn't just let him go with believein the idea that somehow he's trusting in54400:37:40.500 --> 00:37:45.210the Lord when he's really not.Yeah, stunging with the truth, stunning54500:37:45.250 --> 00:37:47.170with God's word, and he willhave to stand before the Lord and give54600:37:47.170 --> 00:37:51.409an account. Hopefully, like yousaid, it planet seeds and he really54700:37:51.449 --> 00:37:53.050truly God, do the surrenders tothe Lord and trust. Yeah, I54800:37:53.090 --> 00:37:57.369got a great text, I thinkit was this week, from a mom54900:37:57.530 --> 00:38:01.719who said she was thanking cities forlife, for that which is our ministry,55000:38:02.000 --> 00:38:06.559our organization, that that is therein front of the abortion center.55100:38:06.920 --> 00:38:12.800And she she said because when shechose life because we were there and she55200:38:12.909 --> 00:38:17.670said I I thought my situation thatI faced was so awful and that it55300:38:17.710 --> 00:38:21.469would never change, and said I'mso glad I chose life. Do you55400:38:21.550 --> 00:38:24.789know, every single thing has changedfor the better, every single thing.55500:38:25.389 --> 00:38:30.820But she had put her faith inGod and in doing the right thing before55600:38:31.420 --> 00:38:37.219her circumstances changed. And how sooften happens, than God worked were good55700:38:37.340 --> 00:38:42.449things in her life. The nextone is one that is not, I55800:38:42.570 --> 00:38:44.690think, unique. Cut in awhites in here, but throw it in55900:38:44.769 --> 00:38:46.489there. Convinced them they're a sinner. That that you need to do that56000:38:46.570 --> 00:38:50.050with everyone. You show the Gospel. Yeah, one why is? Preacher56100:38:50.130 --> 00:38:52.769said, you got to get peoplelost before you can get them safe.56200:38:52.769 --> 00:38:53.849They don't know that they have tobe found. Yeah, don't. If56300:38:53.849 --> 00:38:58.440they don't know they're lost, whyare they trying to be found by our56400:38:58.559 --> 00:39:00.679gracious God? And if they don'tknow that they have a sickness, then56500:39:00.760 --> 00:39:07.719why would they take the remedy?That's right, and our great encourager,56600:39:07.920 --> 00:39:10.349at least from a far ray,comfort and sharing the gospels, gets right56700:39:10.389 --> 00:39:14.789to that first. I love watchinghis videos. I love just here in56800:39:14.789 --> 00:39:17.030the Gospel presentations yeah, he talksabout that very same thing. I need56900:39:17.110 --> 00:39:21.829to use the law to show peoplethat they're sick, that they need a57000:39:21.869 --> 00:39:23.820physician, because someone's not going totake a cure for disease. They don't57100:39:23.820 --> 00:39:27.980believe that they have right. Andmost people walk around. You know,57200:39:28.059 --> 00:39:31.699the Bible says each one will proclaimtheir own goodness. People think they're basically57300:39:31.739 --> 00:39:34.980good. I'm a good person.Everybody else is evil, but I'm a57400:39:35.019 --> 00:39:37.139good person. And you have toreally get right to that thing and show57500:39:37.179 --> 00:39:40.449them they're not a good person.Yeah, they're actually separated from God through57600:39:40.449 --> 00:39:45.929their sin and they're under God's judgment, but Jesus Christ came so that they57700:39:45.969 --> 00:39:49.130might be saved. And even justsometimes you have to just go to the57800:39:49.210 --> 00:39:53.559point of is is there truly evil? And today I said it is.57900:39:53.559 --> 00:39:57.440Hit the evil and I den andshe agreed. Yeah, there is evil,58000:39:57.440 --> 00:40:00.239because she was someone who believed ina higher power but not much of58100:40:00.559 --> 00:40:05.119anything else. And and from they'resaying, so, what does he deserve?58200:40:05.239 --> 00:40:07.670Well, he deserves hell. She'squite certain of that. But she58300:40:07.789 --> 00:40:10.710did not see. Didn't, andso then so introducing the idea that she58400:40:10.949 --> 00:40:14.949was indeed a sinner, that thathelped her to come to an understanding of58500:40:15.030 --> 00:40:19.150why Jesus dying on the Cross wasnecessary, why that penalty had to be58600:40:19.190 --> 00:40:22.019paid. And that's the next one. Remind them there is a penalty for58700:40:22.099 --> 00:40:25.380sin. Where sinner, there isa penalty sin. And then I'll kind58800:40:25.380 --> 00:40:31.219of speed US along, move tothe remedy Persin, which is the gospel58900:40:31.300 --> 00:40:36.329of Jesus Christ. What Jesus Christdid in his death, burying resurrection is59000:40:36.409 --> 00:40:39.250the remedy for the problem of sin. That's right. It's not trying hard,59100:40:39.409 --> 00:40:45.489doing better, getting a bigger Bibleor whatever. It's surrendering to what59200:40:45.610 --> 00:40:51.519Jesus Christ has done. That's howyou get salvation right. And and then,59300:40:51.559 --> 00:40:53.519if then, and only then,if they understand all that has been59400:40:53.559 --> 00:40:58.559said and you truly understand. Ifyou say, do you understand everything?59500:40:58.679 --> 00:41:01.400Do you have any questions? Isthere anything you disagree with? Now I59600:41:01.519 --> 00:41:06.190agree with all of that at thisall makes sense. At that point I59700:41:06.349 --> 00:41:10.590will extend an invitation. If Ireally believe that they have truly grasped and59800:41:10.789 --> 00:41:15.869understood sincerely everything that that's been raised, then I extend an invitation for them59900:41:15.989 --> 00:41:20.619to ask to submit their life toJesus, ask him to be Lord of60000:41:20.699 --> 00:41:24.980their life and begin that process,yeah, of walking with God. Yes,60100:41:25.139 --> 00:41:28.699yeah, I know, I've heardfolks that have a problem with this60200:41:28.940 --> 00:41:31.139extending in invitation for people. Yes, yeah, you want to get right60300:41:31.179 --> 00:41:34.409with God right now. Yeah,some people say, you know, you60400:41:34.449 --> 00:41:37.889should just let it be between themand the Lord. I understand that.60500:41:37.050 --> 00:41:42.889Yeah, but I do think thatis important to get them again. It's60600:41:42.929 --> 00:41:45.409not decision, believe. Easy believeis and get them to check a box,60700:41:45.570 --> 00:41:50.119but to give them to acknowledge,before God and before other people,60800:41:50.920 --> 00:41:53.679their sin and their need for asavior and to ask God to rescue and60900:41:53.760 --> 00:41:59.480to save them. Yea, andgiving them an opportunity to pray, and61000:41:59.639 --> 00:42:04.190you've done it several times. I'veseen it with some men I've ministered to61100:42:04.349 --> 00:42:07.789on the sidewalk to pray and askJesus to save them from their sin.61200:42:07.869 --> 00:42:10.630I'll even get them to go throughand confess their sense, name out,61300:42:10.670 --> 00:42:14.349what your sons are. You're notyou're not talking to me, so I61400:42:14.510 --> 00:42:16.739make sure they direct their attention tothe ord talking to God. Yeah,61500:42:16.820 --> 00:42:22.699God knows all this stuff anyway.Confessed to him and God can wash your61600:42:22.780 --> 00:42:27.179sins away. Yeah, today,after I shared the Gospel. The woman61700:42:27.340 --> 00:42:31.010went from agnostic, believing in ahigher power but really knowing nothing else,61800:42:31.090 --> 00:42:36.849to that is a beautiful story.She agreed and she understood and it was61900:42:36.929 --> 00:42:38.369clear from the question she'd asked.And I did say, you know,62000:42:38.489 --> 00:42:42.889you could do this at any moment. You can submit your life to Jesus62100:42:42.969 --> 00:42:45.800from this moment forward and I'm happyto pray with you if you want to62200:42:45.880 --> 00:42:49.599pray. She said. You knowwhat, I really am going to think62300:42:49.639 --> 00:42:52.519about this. This this there's there'sbeen. You've given me a lot to62400:42:53.079 --> 00:42:59.949consider, but I am not readyto fully commit right now and I feel62500:42:59.989 --> 00:43:02.070like this is something I need tofully commit to. And that is a62600:43:02.469 --> 00:43:07.030great statement. Yeah, and andand I said that is wonderful and I62700:43:07.110 --> 00:43:10.230think you should think about it,pray about it, but I would not62800:43:10.309 --> 00:43:14.500wait too long. I do,I do feel an urgency that maybe not62900:43:14.619 --> 00:43:17.179everyone feels, but the Bible says, while it is yet today, do63000:43:17.340 --> 00:43:20.980not harden your heart as you didin the repellion. Yeah, and I63100:43:21.059 --> 00:43:24.860am we none of us are guaranteedtomorrow. Yeah, I'm so, so63200:43:25.260 --> 00:43:30.849some of the key verses for sharingthe Gospel and maybe then we can wrap,63300:43:30.130 --> 00:43:34.809wrap it up with those. Theconcept of personal sin. Romans three63400:43:34.849 --> 00:43:37.570hundred and twenty three. Yeah,one of my favorites. For All have63500:43:37.690 --> 00:43:40.130sinned and false show of the gloryof God. The penalty for sin.63600:43:40.440 --> 00:43:44.480Romans six hundred and twenty three.The wages of sin is death. Do63700:43:44.519 --> 00:43:49.000you have a favorite for repentance?Yeah, well, repent or you shall63800:43:49.079 --> 00:43:52.079likewise. Paris was that, butthat too good. Chapter Thirteen, it's63900:43:52.119 --> 00:43:54.280a good one. Yeah, okay. Yeah, so I'll remember that one.64000:43:55.230 --> 00:44:00.030There's a path back to God throughJesus. I love Romans ten nine64100:44:00.389 --> 00:44:05.630for that, which I had alreadymentioned. Focusing on Lordship, yeah,64200:44:05.670 --> 00:44:08.590she is one of the most commonmisunderstandings and of false conversions. I believe64300:44:08.710 --> 00:44:13.420is not understanding. Lord Luke sixand forty six. Why do you call64400:44:13.460 --> 00:44:15.900me Lord Lord? Yeah, andnot everyone, Matthew. Twenty one is64500:44:15.940 --> 00:44:20.219another great one. Not everyone whosays to me Lord Lord, will enter64600:44:20.300 --> 00:44:22.659the Kingdom of Heaven. Yeah,that's a powerful that is a powerful and64700:44:23.099 --> 00:44:27.449scary verse. Yeah, who arenot living for the Lord it is,64800:44:28.210 --> 00:44:30.570have not truly certended their life toJesus, and yet have his name on64900:44:30.610 --> 00:44:37.010their lips. Yeah, I thinksomething for me and that kept me from65000:44:37.010 --> 00:44:40.239sharing the Gospel was because there's somany great verses and there's so many that65100:44:40.559 --> 00:44:45.960you could focus on. So Ithink it is important to go through and65200:44:45.079 --> 00:44:50.920think about what are the key elementsand what are some key verses that really65300:44:50.960 --> 00:44:55.429resonate with you, that that getthat key concept across to whoever you're talking65400:44:55.469 --> 00:45:00.030to and memorize those verses. Yeah, absolutely, and not be afraid.65500:45:00.389 --> 00:45:05.389Not Be afraid, because the itis the power of God alone is it's65600:45:05.510 --> 00:45:09.619what's going to change this whole abortionissue. Yeah, and change it.65700:45:09.940 --> 00:45:15.900That change happens individual hearts being surrenderedto the Lord. So I would encourage65800:45:15.900 --> 00:45:19.699you guys share the gospel out thereon the sidewalk. Don't neglect sharing the65900:45:19.780 --> 00:45:22.969gospel. Encourage us. Maybe thereare some things that we missed in this66000:45:23.130 --> 00:45:28.010podcast. Maybe you're involved in sidewalkministry, you're out there on a regular66100:45:28.010 --> 00:45:30.170basis and you're sharing the Gospel andthere's some stuff we didn't touch on.66200:45:30.329 --> 00:45:34.090Some wisdom you can give to us. We certainly don't think that we have66300:45:34.170 --> 00:45:37.679it all together, so reach outto US share those things. You can66400:45:37.719 --> 00:45:43.079reach out to me d parks atcities for lifecom Her v CASSIE ORG at66500:45:43.119 --> 00:45:45.719cities for lifecom. We'd love tohear from you, guys. We appreciate66600:45:45.800 --> 00:45:50.469you, guys that share this podcast. Please continue to share it, but66700:45:50.590 --> 00:46:02.590until next time, God bless ourlove. For Love, give me our66800:46:02.909 --> 00:46:15.900loft for gratitude. I know itwill cost me my life. Nothing's too66900:46:15.179 --> 00:46:17.420precious. And some met you













